<div><span><font size="6">관계중독 테스트</font></span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div><span>1. 강한 반대 </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">2. </span><span>어느 정도 반대 </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">3. </span><span>반대에 가까운 </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">4. </span><span>중간</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">/</span><span>모르겠음 </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">5. </span><span>찬성에 가까운 </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">6. </span><span>어느 정도 찬성 </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">7. </span><span>강한 찬성</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span>1. 나를 사랑하는 사람이 있다는 걸 확인하지 못하면 불행하다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">2. </span><span>호감 가는 사람이 있으면 쫓아다니고 싶다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">3. </span><span>누군가 나를 절실히 필요로 하면 그에게 끌린다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">4. </span><span>내 속에는 현재의 감정적 고통을 다룰 재원이 없다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';">    </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">5. </span><span>나는 안정된 사랑관계 속에 있지 않으면 공허하고 불안하다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';">      </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">6. </span><span>성적으로 너무 문란한 것 같아 죄책감이 든다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';">      </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">7. </span><span>마음 끌리는 사람이 있냐고 물으면</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>그렇다고 대답할 수 있다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">8. </span><span>우리 부모님도 중독적인 성향을 갖고 계셨다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">9</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>나는 나를 알아주고 완전하게 사랑해 줄 이상적인 배우자를 꿈꾼다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';">      </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">10. </span><span>나는 어떤 이성을 만나든</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>정복대상으로 본다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">11. </span><span>나는 사랑하는 사람의 단점은 외면한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">12. </span><span>내 유년</span><span style="letter-spacing:0pt;">ㅅ</span><span>절 가운데는 아직도 해결되지 않은 아픔이 있다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">13. </span><span>뭐가 잘못됐는지는 몰라도</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>아무튼 나는 사랑하기가 어렵다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">14. </span><span>나는 종종 성적으로 무력하다는 느낌을 받는다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">15. </span><span>나는 사랑하는 사람의 결점을 바꿀 수 있다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">16. </span><span>나는 다른 사람들이 나에게 무언가 요구하면</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>쉽게 응한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">17. </span><span>때로 부당한 대우를 받기도 하지만</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>사랑만 받을 수 있다면 얼마든지 참을 수 있다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">18. </span><span>나는 나를 기쁘게 해줄 이상적인 연인을 꿈꾸곤 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">19. </span><span>지금 내가 사랑하는 사람은 나의 결점들을 보완해 준다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">20. </span><span>나의 낭만적인 관계는 사랑과 증오 사이에서 왔다 갔다 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">21. </span><span>낭만적인 관계에 빠지면 다른 사람들과의 우정은 돌아보지도 않는다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">22. </span><span>나는 성관계를 맺고 있으면</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>더할 수 없이 사랑받고 있는 듯하다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">23. </span><span>내 파트너가 다른 사람에게 간심을 보이면 질투심이 끓어오른다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">24. </span><span>최근에 감정적으로 상처 받은 게 있는데</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>그것 때문에 너무 고통스러웠다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">25. </span><span>사랑에만 빠지면</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>활력이 넘치고 힘이 나는 것 같다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">26. TV</span><span>나 영화 속 주인공과 성관계를 나누는 장면을 상상하곤 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">27. </span><span>사랑하는 사람과 일주일 이상 떨어져 있으면 몸이 아프다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">28. </span><span>누구하고든 관계만 맺으면</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>그것이 내 삶을 지배하는 경향이 있다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1 2 3 4 5 6 7</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div><span>점수 매기기</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <table style="border-right-width:medium;border-bottom-width:medium;border-left-width:medium;border-right-style:none;border-bottom-style:none;border-left-style:none;border-collapse:collapse;"><tbody><tr><td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">1</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">2</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">3</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">4</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td></tr><tr><td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">5</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">6</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">7</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">8</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td></tr><tr><td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">9</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">10</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">11</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">12</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td></tr><tr><td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">13</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">14</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">15</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">16</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td></tr><tr><td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">17</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">18</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">19</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">20</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td></tr><tr><td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">21</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">22</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">23</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">24</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td></tr><tr><td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">25</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">26</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">27</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">28</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td></tr><tr><td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">L</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">S</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">P</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">G</span></div></td> <td valign="middle" style="padding:1.41pt 5.1pt;border:.28pt solid rgb(0,0,0);width:52.44pt;height:12.82pt;"> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div></td></tr></tbody></table><div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';">세로합의 총합을 넣으시면 됩니다.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span>-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><font size="3"><span>사랑중독 </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">L</span></font></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span>사랑중독이란 관계 안에 거하고자 하는 충동으로</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>사랑받고자 하는 욕구가 인식할 수 있을 정도로 높다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>대개 자존감이 낮은 사람이 사랑중독에 잘 빠지는데</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>사랑중독자는 다른 사람과 함께 있음으로써</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>자기가 중요한 사람이라고 느끼고 싶어 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>그러나 실제로 그들이 갈망하는 것은 사랑이 아니라</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>사랑 안에 있다는 느낌이다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">45-49 </span><span>낭만적인 관계가 절대적으로 필요하다고 느끼는 상태</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>이 느낌 때문에 많은 사람이 잘못된 관계에 뛰어들어 곤란을 당하곤 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>여기에 해당하는 사람들은 이 책을 읽는 것으로 그치지 말고 전문 상담가에게 상담 받는 것까지 해야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">39-44 </span><span>사랑중독자는 아니지만 사랑중독자가 될 수 있는 성향이 강함</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>낭만적인 관계에 대한 기대는 높은 반면</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>자기 스스로 성취할 수 있는 일에 대한 평가는 낮다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>이런 사람들은 이 두 가지를 좀 더 현실적으로 이해하고 현재 맺고 있는 관계도 조금 주의해야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">32-38 </span><span>사랑중독 쪽으로 약간 기울어져 있음</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>위험하지는 않지만 주의를 요한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>고통스러운 이별을 했거나 가정에 위기가 닥쳐 갑자기 큰 충격을 받았을 때는 더욱더 조심해야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>무엇보다 자존감을 높여야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>그래야 힘든 일을 만났을 때 헤쳐 나갈 수 있다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">25-31 </span><span>아무 문제없음</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>그러나 예기치 못한 위기가 닥치면</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>태도상에 갑작스런 변화가 일어날 수도 있으므로 주의해야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>다른 영역에서 점수가 높게 나왔다면</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>사람중독에도 쉽게 빠질 수 있으므로 더욱더 조심해야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">25</span><span>이하 위험 기준에서 평균 이하이므로 안심해도 좋다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>지금 당장은 아무 문제없다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><font size="3"><span>성중독</span><span style="letter-spacing:0pt;">　</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">S</span></font></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"><font size="3"> </font></span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span>대부분의 책들은 성중독을 포르노 및 난교와 관련지어 이야기 하지만</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>나는 관계 내에서의 성중독에 초점을 맞추고자 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>성중독은 관계에 어떤 영향을 미칠까</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">? </span><span>아래의 평가는 행동이 아니라 감정에 초점을 맞춘 것 이므로</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>성중독이 실제로 표현되어 나온 행동보다 그쪽으로 기울어지는 성향을 측정해 준다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">45-49 </span><span>문제가 많음</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>섹스를 사랑과 혼돈한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>자신이 부적절한 사람이라는 느낌을 떨쳐 내기 위해 다른 사람을 성적으로 이용한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>여기에 해당하는 사람들은 이 책을 읽는 것으로 그치지 말고</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>전문 상담가에게 상담받거나 도움을 주고받을 수 있는 모임에 가입해 치료 받아야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">39-44 </span><span>성중독으로 치우치는 성향이 강함</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>섹스를 좋아하면서도 싫어한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>성충동이 강하기 때문에</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>그것을 떨쳐 내려면 힘겨운 노력을 해야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>이런 사람들은 섹스와 사랑이 다르다는 것을 이해해야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>그리고 이성에 대한 건강한 이해를 갖도록 노력해야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>현재 맺고 있는 관계를 주의하고 유혹이 오면 피하라</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">32-38 </span><span>성중독 쪽으로 약간 기울어져 있음</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. TV</span><span>나 영화</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>음악이 전하는 메시지 그리고 주변 사람들이 하는 말을 가려서 들어야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>지금 우리 사회는 전체가 성중독쪽으로 기울어져 있다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>거기에 휘둘리지 않도록 주의하라</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">25-31 </span><span>아무 문제없음</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>그러나 예기치 못한 위기가 닥치면</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>태도상에 갑작스런 변화가 일어날 수도 있으므로 주의해야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>다른 영역에서 점수가 높게 나왔다면</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>성중독에도 쉽게 빠질 수 있으므로 더욱더 조심해야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">25</span><span>이하 위험 수준에서 평균 이하이므로 안심해도 좋다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>지금 당장은 아무 문제없다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><font size="3"><span>사람중독 </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">P</span></font></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span>이 중독은 한 사람만 바라보는 것이므로</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>지금 특별하게 생각하는 사람이 없다면 질문에 답하기 어려웠을 것이다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>그러나 과거의 관계들을 생각하며 답했다면</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>지금은 중독적인 관계에 빠져 있지 않아도 높은 점수가 나왔을 수 있다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>아무튼</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>점수가 높다는 것은 언제고 사람중독에 빠질 수 있음을 의미한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">43-49 </span><span>사람중독에 빠져 있음</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>혹은 아무한테 중독되어 있지 않아도 사람중독에 빠질 수 있는 위험이 큼</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>정체성 확립과 삼</span><span style="letter-spacing:0pt;">ㄹㅁ</span><span>의 목적을 위해 지금 관계 맺고 있는 사람에게 의지하려는 성향이 강하다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>그러나 그 사람과 상관없이 자신의 정체성을 확립해야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>그러려면 전문 상담가의 도움이 필요할 것이다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">36-42 </span><span>사람중독에 빠질 수 있는 성향이 강함</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>지금 관계 맺고 있는 사람을 예배하는 경향이 있다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>혹은 그 반대로</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>그 사람은 당신 없이 살 수 없을 거라고 생각한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">(</span><span>사람중독은 양방향적이어서</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>당신도 그 사람을 필요로 하고 그 사람도 당신을 필요로 한</span><span style="letter-spacing:0pt;">ㄴ</span><span>다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>또한 서로 상대방이 자기를 필요로 하기 바란다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>따라서 당신 혼자서만 관계에 중독되어 있다면</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>점수가 그리 높게 나오지 않을 것이다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>그래도 문제는 여전하겠지만</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">). </span><span>어떻게든 관계에서 빠져나오도록 하라</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>그리고 될 수 있으면 두 사람 모두 독립적인 인격체로 존재하도록 하라</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">28-35 </span><span>사람중독 쪽으로 약간 기울어져 있음</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">(</span><span>질문 가운데 돌보기 좋아하는 성향을 측정한 것이 몇 개 있는데</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>이것 때문에 점수분류가 다른 중독보다 </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">2-4</span><span>점 정도 낮게 매겨졌다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>이를테면</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>다른 중독에서는 이 부분의 점수가 </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">32-38</span><span>로 분류되어있지만</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>여기에서는 </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">28-35</span><span>로 분류되었다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. 28</span><span>점 정도면 평균점이지만</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>그래도 사람중독 쪽으로 기울 수 있으므로 주의해야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">). </span><span>현재 맺고 있는 관계들을 조심하라</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>그리고 자신과 상대방의 단점 모두에 눈을 크게 뜨라</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>가끔씩은 상대방이</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">(</span><span>당신도</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">) </span><span>독립적인 결정을 할 수 있도록 하라</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">23-28 </span><span>아직까지는 아무 문제없을 수도 있다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>그러나 점점 더 의존적이 될 수 있으므로 주의해야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>두 사람 모두 강해지고 함께 성장할 수 있는 상호의존을 확립하도록 하라</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">23</span><span>이하 위험 수준에서 평균 이하이므로 안심해도 좋다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>지금 당장은 아무 문제없다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><font size="3"><span>일반적인 중독요소들 </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">G</span></font></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><font size="3"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span></font> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><span>관계중독에 얼마나 영향 받기 쉬운지 보여준다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">43-49 </span><span>관계중독자가 되려 함</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">(</span><span>관계중독이 아직 일어나지 않았다면</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">). </span><span>중독적인 상황에 빠져 들게 하는 배경적</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>태도적 요소가 무척 많다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>전문가의 상담을 받으면 그 중 몇 가지는 해결할 수 있을 것이다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">39-44 </span><span>관계중독에 빠질 수 있는 성향이 강함</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>유년시절이나 과거관계 가운데 어른이 된 지금까지도 고통을 주는 문제들이 있다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>이것은 반드시 해결해야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>특히</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>최근에 감정적으로 깊이 상처 받았다면 치유할 시간을 갖도록 해야 한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>따라서 당장은 낭만적인 관계에 연루되지 않는 것이 좋다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">32-38 </span><span>관계중독 쪽으로 약간 기울어져 있음</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>관계중독 쪽으로 기울어지게 하는 몇 가지 요소가 있는데</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>이것만 잘 다루면 별 문제 없다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>아직 해결하지 못한 개인적인 문제는 관계 속으로 가져오지 않도록 주의하라</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">25-31 </span><span>관계중독에 빠지게 하는 심각한 배경이나 태도적인 요소는 없지만</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, 100</span><span>퍼센트 안전하지는 않다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>일시적인 압력에는 얼마든지 굴복할 수 있다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">25</span><span>이하 위험 수준에서 평균 이하이므로 안심해도 좋다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>지금 당장은 아무 문제없다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div><span style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span><p></p></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span>사람마다 처한 상황이 다르므로</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>테스트 결과는 각자의 상황을 이해하기 위한 도구로 사용하는 것이 좋</span><span style="letter-spacing:0pt;">ㄷ</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>여기에 얽매일 필요는 전혀 없다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>이 말은 테스트를 하다가 중간에 그만둬도 되고 테스트를 아예 하지 않아도 된다는 소리다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>어느 영역에 도움이 필요한지는 아마 자신이 벌써 알고 있을 것이다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>이 테스트는 그것을 분명히 해주는 역할밖에 하지 못한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>혹시 모든 영역에서 점수가 높게 나와도 전혀 놀랄 필요 없다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>중독적 인성을 가진 사람은 여러 영역에서 중독증상을 보이기 때문이다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">. </span><span>그러므로 테스트 결과를 보고 근심 걱정으로 몸져눕지 말고</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">, </span><span>그것을 고치기 위한 방법을 모색하도록 하라</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">.</span></div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';"></span> </div> <div style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'함초롬바탕';">------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------</span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'한컴바탕';"></span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'한컴바탕';"></span> </div> <div><span style="font-family:'한컴바탕';"><font face="굴림" size="2">의존적인 연애 관계에 대한 글들이 많아 예전에 읽었던 책에 나왔던 테스트를 옮겨왔습니다.</font></span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'한컴바탕';"><font face="굴림" size="2">책은 '사랑이라는 이름의 중독' 입니다.</font></span></div> <div><span style="font-family:'한컴바탕';"><font face="굴림" size="2"></font></span> </div> <div><span style="font-family:'한컴바탕';"><font face="굴림" size="2">저도 과거 연애과정에서 많은 것을 배웠고 후회도 많이 했습니다. 다른 분들은 조금이라도 자신을 찾아가며 아픔을 덜었으면 합니다. 다른 책을 한 권 추천하자면 '사랑의 기술' - 에리히 프롬  입니다.</font></span></div>