<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>저는요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>남을 많이 미워하고 판단을 자주 합니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>타인에 대한 미움을 어떻게 없앨 수 있는지 알고 싶어서<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">...</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>타인 누구를 미워하는데<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">?</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>저한테 잘못을 저지를 사람<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">...</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>어떻게 잘못을 저질렀는데<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>뭐<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span>연필을 빌려서 안돌려주거나<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">....</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>연필을 빌려서 안돌려주면 돌려 달라 그러면 되지<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';"> </span></p> <p>돌려달라고 했는데요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>잃어버렸대요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>잃어버리면 할 수 없지<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>어떻게 해<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? ‘</span>어 그러냐<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">?’ </span>하고 끝내면 되지<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>어<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>그래도요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>그건 좀<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span>기분 나쁘고요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>미워하니까 연필이 돌아옵디까<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">?</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>네<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">?</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>미워하니까 연필이 돌아오더냐고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">?</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>아니요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>그러면 미워하면 자기만 손해지<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>또<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">?</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>예를 들어 누군지도 모르는데 그냥 다가와서 욕을 하거나<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">...</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>욕을 하면 지 입만 더럽지 뭐<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>지 손해지 내가 무슨 상관이야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">?</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>여러 가지 이유가 있어요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span>생각이 안 나네요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>별일 없다는 거야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>그때그때 잠시 있다가 없어지고 있다가 없어지고 그러는 거지<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>지금 생각이 안날정도니까 별거 아니라는 거야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>아니요 근데 저는 매일 생각해요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>그때 일어나는 거지<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>생각에서 일어나는 거지 별거 아니라는 거야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>그런 거 아니고요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>한사람을 싫어하게 되면요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>저는 진짜로 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">2</span>년<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, 3</span>년 동안 갈수도 있어요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>미움이<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>어<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>그러면 누구 손해인데<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>네<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">?(</span>웃음<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">)</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>왜 미워하는데<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>그거 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">2</span>년<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, 3</span>년 갈만큼 미운 짓을 했나<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>네<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>저는 그만큼 상처를<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">...</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>뭐라고 했는데<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>그냥 그런 것이 저에게 상처를 주는 거 같아서<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">...</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>여기 상처준사람 아무도 없어<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>지가 입은 거지<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>아니에요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>상처 줬어요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>뭐라고 어떻게 해서 줬는데<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">?</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>욕하거나 아니면<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">...</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>욕하면 지 입만 더럽다니까<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>저한텐 큰 문제에요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>그래도<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>그거 문제인데<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>문제를 들어보니까 별거 아니잖아<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">?(</span>청중들 웃음<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">)</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>저에겐 큰 문제에요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">...</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>연필 그거 빌려가서 안주면 달라면 되고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>잃어버렸다면 그만이고 그렇지 뭐<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>돈도 빌려줬는데 </p> <p>안돌려주면 달라고 하면 되고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>없다고 하면 할 수 없지 뭐 어떻게 해<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">?</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>아 근데 잃어버린 건 좀<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">...</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>잃어버릴 수도 있지<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>그게 한두 번도 아니고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">...</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>그래<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>한두 번도 아니고 여러 번 잃어버리는 사람도 있어<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>살다보면<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>근데 그게 니 성질대로 안 된다고 짜증내고 인상 쓰고 그러면 니만 성질 드러워지지 뭐<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>아니 그런 것보다 좀<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span>예의 없어 보이잖아요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>예의란 게 본래 없어<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>예의라고 정해진 게 본래 없다고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>다람쥐가 뭐 예의가 있나<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>그래도 다 잘살잖아<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>강아지는 예의가 있드나<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>그래도 잘살아<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>니가 그걸 너무 따지는 거야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>예의 없는 게 아니라 니 맘에 안 든다 이 얘기야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>세상은 니 마음대로 안 돼<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>세상은 다 니 마음에 들 수가 없어<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>인간이니까 그렇게 생각할 수밖에 없죠<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>다람쥐도 생각 안하는데 니는 뭣 때문에 그렇게 생각하노<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>그럼 니가 말하는 인간은 다람쥐보다 못한 인간 아니야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>다람쥐랑 인간은 다르잖아요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>어떻게 달라<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>다르죠<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>사람은 생각할 줄 알고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>다람쥐도 생각해<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>생각 없죠<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>있어<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>없어요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.(</span>청중들 웃음<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">)</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>다람쥐도 다 새끼 낳고 새끼 키울 줄 알고 지 양식 저장할 줄 알고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>생각이 없는데 어떻게 그렇게 할 줄 알아<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>다하지<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>그냥 본능적으로 하는 거겠죠<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>그래<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>니도 본능적으로 살면 되는 거야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>근데 니가 지금 머리가 복잡해가지고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>다람쥐는 자기생각대로 안 되도 괴로워 안 해<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>근데 니는 니 생각대로 안 된다고 괴로워하는 거야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>그래서 그건 잘못된 생각이야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>버려야 돼<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>고치고 싶은데요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>진짜 버리고 싶은데 어떻게<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">...</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>그 버리고 싶은데<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>고치고 싶은데 라고 하는데 안 고쳐져<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>안 버려지고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>이유는<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>원래 성질낼 일이 없는 줄 알아야 고쳐져<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>그러니까 예를 든다면 친구가 연필을 빌려가서 안준다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>그래서 걔가 밉다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>이 미움 마음을 어떻게 없애느냐<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>할 때 이 미움마음을 없애는 방법이 뭐냐<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>그 연필은 빌려가서 안돌려주면 달라고 하면 되고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>달라고 했는데 잃어버려서 없다고 하면 그만이고 이렇게 생각하면 미워할 일이 없기 때문에<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>미워하는 마음이 안 일어나기 때문에 버릴 것도 없다 이 말이야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>근데 그 미워하는 마음이<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">...</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>그 미워하는 마음이 니가 일어나는 거는 니 마음대로 안 된다고 그게 일어나는 거야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>근데 세상은 원래 자기 마음대로 안 돼<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>그러니까는 안 된다고 미워하지 마라 이거야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. ‘</span>아 안 되구나<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>이거 내 마음대로 안 되구나<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span>이렇게만 생각해야지<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>내 마음대로 안 된다고 상대를 미워하면 안 된다 이 말이야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>그런데도 미워하는 마음이 일어나면 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>어<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>또 내 마음대로 하려고 그러구나<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">’ ‘</span>또 내가 바보 같은 짓 하구나<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">’ </span>이렇게 자꾸 돌이켜야 돼<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>저 자주 그래요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>그럼 뭔데<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>구체적으로 얘기해봐<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>내가 얘기해줄게<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>그런데 안 되잖아요 잘<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>그래<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>잘 안 되는 건 이해 돼<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>여기 있는 사람들 다 잘 안되지만은 그러나 그 잘 안되는 건 니 탓이지 남 탓은 아니라는 거야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>알긴 아는데요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>그냥 안 없어지니까요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>안 없어지니까 아침에 일어나 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">108</span>배 절을 해봐<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>절을 하면서 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>사람마다 다 자기생각이 있습니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>그들은 그들대로 다 옳습니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span>이렇게 절을 해봐<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>어떻게<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? ‘</span>그들은 그들대로 다 옳습니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span>이렇게<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>알겠습니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>진짜 니 알고 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>알겠습니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span>그러나 대충 빨리 끝내야 되겠다 싶으나<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>아 진짜 알겠습니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>어떻게 기도하라고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? 108</span>절을 하면서 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>그들은 그들 나름대로 다 옳습니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>친구는 친구 나름대로 다 옳다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>내 연필 못 돌려주는 걔는 걔 입장에서는 다 그렇게밖에 할 수가 없다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span>이렇게 자꾸 이해를 하면 누구 짜증이 없어진다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>내 짜증이 없어지고 내 미움이 없어져<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. ‘</span>미움 없애겠습니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span>한다고 미움 없어지는 게 아니다 이 말이야<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>어떻게<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? ‘</span>그들은 그들대로 다 옳다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">’ </span>자긴 자기대로 옳은데<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>다른 사람한테 물어보면 걔들은 걔들 나름대로 다 옳아<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>그걸 이해해야 돼<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>근데 그게 딱 꼬라지 보면 안 돼<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>내가 옳아<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>그들대로 옳은 게 아니고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>그래서 자꾸 절을 하면서 자기 암시를 줘야 돼<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. ‘</span>그들은 그들대로 다 옳습니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ ‘</span>그들은 그들 나름대로 다 옳습니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span>이렇게<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>알았죠<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">?</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>네<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>몇 학년이에요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">?</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>저요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>저 고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">2</span>에요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">18</span>살이가<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? 17</span>살<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">?</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>저 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">19</span>살인데 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">1</span>년 꿇었어요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.(</span>청중들 웃음<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">) </span>아 이유가 있어요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>외국에 살다 와서 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">1</span>년 꿇었어요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>근데 외국에 살다 와서 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">1</span>년 꿇어서 그런데<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>지금 막 굉장히 자기생각에 콱 사로잡혀가지고 이렇게 하기 때문에 아이고 앞으로 인생살이에 고생길이 훤하다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.(</span>청중들 웃음<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">)</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>아니에요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.(</span>웃음<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">)</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>그러니까 이렇게 기도 안하면 나중에 살기가 좀 힘들어져<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>그러니까 잘 물었어<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>잘 왔어<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>자기가 자발적으로 왔나<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>엄마가 시켜서 왔나<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>어<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>저 자발적으로 왔어요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>자발적으로 왔어<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>아이고 공덕이 있겠다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>오늘 이렇게 물은 공덕으로 업장이 반은 소멸됐다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>기도하세요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>네<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></p> <p>근데 외국에서 살다오니까 이게 좀 심하다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>왜<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>문화차이가 나니까 외국에 살던 거하고 비교해보니까 어때요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>애들이 예의 없는 거 같고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>막하는 거 같고 이러니까 자꾸 더 저런 문제가 생겨요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'함초롬바탕';letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></p> <p>   </p> <p></p> <p><br></p> <p>  <a target="_blank" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6pw-oGZIs4U" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6pw-oGZIs4U</a> </p> <p></p>