<p class="p1"><font face="굴림">저는 페미니스트입니다. </font></p> <p class="p1"><font face="굴림"><br></font></p> <p class="p1"><font face="굴림">한국에<span class="s1"> </span>살지도<span class="s1"> </span>않고<span class="s1"> </span>트위터도<span class="s1"> </span>안하고<span class="s1"> </span>포럼<span class="s1"> </span>활동은<span class="s1"> </span>오유와<span class="s1"> </span>레딧이<span class="s1"> </span>전부인<span class="s1"> </span>사람이라<span class="s1"> </span>이곳<span class="s1"> </span>게시판에<span class="s1"> </span>공공의적으로<span class="s1"> </span>치부되는<span class="s1"> </span>한국<span class="s1"> </span>페미니스트에<span class="s1"> </span>관해서<span class="s1"> </span>무지하기<span class="s1"> </span>때문에<span class="s1"> </span>딱히<span class="s1"> </span>변호하거나<span class="s1"> </span>공격할<span class="s1"> </span>생각도<span class="s1"> </span>없습니다<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></font></p> <p class="p1"><font face="굴림">사실<span class="s1"> </span>페미니즘에<span class="s1"> </span>관하여<span class="s1"> </span>정식으로<span class="s1"> </span>배운적도<span class="s1"> </span>없고<span class="s1"> </span>기껏해야<span class="s1"> </span>책<span class="s1"> </span>몇권읽은게<span class="s1"> </span>전부이지만<span class="s1"> </span>전<span class="s1"> </span>제가<span class="s1"> </span>페미니스트라<span class="s1"> </span>생각합니다<span class="s1">.</span></font></p> <p class="p1"><font face="굴림">제가<span class="s1"> </span>페미니스트인<span class="s1"> </span>이유는<span class="s1"> </span>남여평등은<span class="s1"> </span>인권의<span class="s1"> </span>지극히<span class="s1"> </span>기초적인<span class="s1"> </span>기반이지만<span class="s1">, </span>현<span class="s1"> </span>사회에서<span class="s1">, </span>한국이든<span class="s1"> </span>제가사는<span class="s1"> </span>미국이든<span class="s1">, </span>아직까지<span class="s1"> </span>성별에<span class="s1"> </span>의한<span class="s1"> </span>차별과<span class="s1"> </span>굴레가<span class="s1"> </span>존재하기<span class="s1"> </span>때문입니다<span class="s1">.</span></font></p> <p class="p1"><font face="굴림">제가<span class="s1"> </span>아는<span class="s1"> </span>페미니스트는<span class="s1"> </span>단순히<span class="s1"> </span>여성만을<span class="s1"> </span>위한<span class="s1"> </span>이론이<span class="s1"> </span>아니고<span class="s1">, </span>남성들<span class="s1"> </span>또한<span class="s1"> </span>성차별에서<span class="s1"> </span>해방되어야<span class="s1"> </span>하는<span class="s1">, </span>모두를<span class="s1"> </span>위한<span class="s1"> </span>것입니다<span class="s1">.</span></font></p> <p class="p2"><font face="굴림"><br></font></p> <p class="p1"><font face="굴림">저는<span class="s1"> </span>여성이고<span class="s1">, </span>남성의<span class="s1"> </span>여성에<span class="s1"> </span>대한<span class="s1"> </span>배려<span class="s1">(</span>혹은<span class="s1"> </span>호의<span class="s1">)</span>를<span class="s1"> </span>받으려<span class="s1"> </span>노력해본적도<span class="s1"> </span>없고<span class="s1">, </span>또<span class="s1"> </span>받으면<span class="s1"> </span>정중히<span class="s1"> </span>거절합니다<span class="s1">. <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></font></p> <p class="p1"><font face="굴림">나는<span class="s1"> </span>동등한<span class="s1"> </span>인간인데<span class="s1"> </span>성별에<span class="s1"> </span>의해<span class="s1"> </span>약자취급하는게<span class="s1"> </span>싫기때문입니다<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>한동안<span class="s1"> </span>야외암벽타기를<span class="s1"> </span>취미로<span class="s1"> </span>했는데<span class="s1">, </span>배낭이<span class="s1"> </span>매우<span class="s1"> </span>무거운<span class="s1"> </span>취미라<span class="s1"> (</span>약<span class="s1"> 15~20</span>키로<span class="s1">), </span>많은<span class="s1"> </span>여성분들이<span class="s1"> </span>같은<span class="s1"> </span>취미의<span class="s1"> </span>남성을<span class="s1"> </span>남친삼으며<span class="s1"> </span>자신의<span class="s1"> </span>짐을<span class="s1"> </span>넘기는걸<span class="s1"> </span>보며<span class="s1">, </span>또<span class="s1"> </span>저에게<span class="s1"> </span>배낭들기<span class="s1"> </span>힘드니까<span class="s1"> </span>남친을<span class="s1"> </span>사귀라는<span class="s1"> </span>조언을<span class="s1"> </span>하여서<span class="s1"> </span>굉장히<span class="s1"> </span>열받았습니다<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>ㅅ.ㅂ<span class="s1"> </span>자신의<span class="s1"> </span>짐을<span class="s1"> </span>들<span class="s1"> </span>힘도<span class="s1"> </span>없으면<span class="s1"> </span>딴<span class="s1"> </span>취미를<span class="s1"> </span>찾아야<span class="s1"> </span>하는거<span class="s1"> </span>아닌가<span class="s1">, </span>그럴때만<span class="s1"> </span>연약한<span class="s1"> </span>여자놀이하는거<span class="s1"> </span>굉장히<span class="s1"> </span>싫어합니다<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>한편으로는<span class="s1"> </span>동등한<span class="s1"> </span>대우를<span class="s1"> </span>바라면서<span class="s1"> </span>자기에게<span class="s1"> </span>이득일때만<span class="s1"> </span>약자놀이를<span class="s1"> </span>하는것은<span class="s1"> </span>제가보기에<span class="s1"> </span>절대<span class="s1"> </span>페미니스트가<span class="s1"> </span>아닙니다<span class="s1">. <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></font></p> <p class="p2"><font face="굴림"><br></font></p> <p class="p1"><font face="굴림">그러나<span class="s1"> </span>이런<span class="s1"> </span>시선을<span class="s1"> </span>갖게<span class="s1"> </span>된<span class="s1"> </span>여성들을<span class="s1"> </span>이해를<span class="s1"> </span>하기도<span class="s1"> </span>합니다<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>저또한<span class="s1"> </span>여자는<span class="s1"> </span>너무<span class="s1"> </span>근육키우면<span class="s1"> </span>여성스럽지<span class="s1"> </span>못하여<span class="s1"> </span>시집못간다는<span class="s1"> </span>가정교육을<span class="s1"> </span>받고<span class="s1"> </span>자라고<span class="s1">, </span>종아리가<span class="s1"> </span>굵어질까봐<span class="s1"> </span>축구를<span class="s1"> </span>못하게<span class="s1"> </span>한<span class="s1"> </span>부모님이<span class="s1"> </span>계십니다<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>제가<span class="s1"> </span>어릴적<span class="s1"> </span>영화나<span class="s1"> </span>드라마속<span class="s1"> </span>여성은<span class="s1"> </span>늘<span class="s1"> </span>약한<span class="s1"> </span>존재였습니다<span class="s1">. </span>꺄악<span class="s1"> </span>소리지르면<span class="s1"> </span>타잔이<span class="s1"> </span>구해주고<span class="s1"> </span>제임스본드가<span class="s1"> </span>구해주고<span class="s1">..<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>이<span class="s1"> </span>게시판에서<span class="s1"> </span>여성소방관<span class="s1">/</span>여성경찰<span class="s1">/</span>여군에게<span class="s1"> </span>동등한<span class="s1"> </span>체력테스트를<span class="s1"> </span>요구하는<span class="s1"> </span>남성분들중<span class="s1"> </span>근육이<span class="s1"> </span>우락부락한<span class="s1"> </span>여성분이<span class="s1"> </span>이상형이신분<span class="s1"> </span>계신가요<span class="s1">?<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>여자는<span class="s1"> </span>약하다는<span class="s1"> </span>혹은<span class="s1"> </span>약해야<span class="s1"> </span>한다는<span class="s1"> </span>문화에<span class="s1"> </span>의한<span class="s1"> </span>반복된<span class="s1"> </span>세뇌교육을<span class="s1"> </span>받고<span class="s1"> </span>자랐는데<span class="s1">, </span>저처럼<span class="s1"> </span>그걸<span class="s1"> </span>극구거부한<span class="s1"> </span>사람도<span class="s1"> </span>있겠지만<span class="s1">, </span>많은<span class="s1"> </span>여성과<span class="s1"> </span>남성들이<span class="s1"> </span>그<span class="s1"> </span>세뇌에서<span class="s1"> </span>벗어나지<span class="s1"> </span>못하는걸<span class="s1"> </span>이해합니다<span class="s1">. </span>이해한다는건<span class="s1"> </span>수용한다는것이<span class="s1"> </span>아닙니다<span class="s1">. </span>하지만<span class="s1"> </span>이해하지<span class="s1"> </span>못하면<span class="s1"> </span>인내심을<span class="s1"> </span>갖고<span class="s1"> </span>바꾸어나갈수<span class="s1"> </span>있을까요<span class="s1">? <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></font></p> <p class="p2"><font face="굴림"><br></font></p> <p class="p1"><font face="굴림">저도<span class="s1"> </span>가끔<span class="s1"> </span>하이힐과<span class="s1"> </span>미니스커트를<span class="s1"> </span>신지만은<span class="s1"> </span>하이힐<span class="s1">, </span>미니스커트를<span class="s1"> </span>보면<span class="s1"> </span>정말<span class="s1"> </span>여성의<span class="s1"> </span>행동을<span class="s1"> </span>제압하는<span class="s1"> </span>기구에요<span class="s1">. </span>그것들을<span class="s1"> </span>입고<span class="s1">/</span>신고서는<span class="s1"> </span>달리지도<span class="s1"> </span>못하고<span class="s1"> </span>행동반경이<span class="s1"> </span>억제되어<span class="s1"> </span>제가<span class="s1"> </span>연약해진<span class="s1"> </span>기분이<span class="s1"> </span>듭니다<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>태권도<span class="s1"> </span>검은띠가<span class="s1"> </span>있어도<span class="s1"> </span>소용없고<span class="s1"> </span>거리에서<span class="s1"> </span>누가<span class="s1"> </span>위헙이라도<span class="s1"> </span>가하면<span class="s1"> </span>꼼짝없이<span class="s1"> </span>당할것<span class="s1"> </span>같거든요<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>잡아채기<span class="s1"> </span>좋은<span class="s1"> </span>긴<span class="s1"> </span>머리<span class="s1">, </span>매끈하고<span class="s1"> </span>날씬한<span class="s1"> </span>몸매<span class="s1"> </span>등<span class="s1"> </span>여성에게<span class="s1"> </span>이쁜것들은<span class="s1"> </span>왜<span class="s1"> </span>저흴<span class="s1"> </span>육체적으로<span class="s1"> </span>약하게<span class="s1"> </span>만들까요<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>미의<span class="s1"> </span>기준은<span class="s1"> </span>문화적<span class="s1"> </span>변화가<span class="s1"> </span>있는것인데<span class="s1"> </span>유독히<span class="s1"> </span>여성의<span class="s1"> </span>미의<span class="s1"> </span>기준만<span class="s1"> </span>이꼴일까요<span class="s1">..<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>여성을<span class="s1"> </span>보기좋은<span class="s1"> </span>장신구<span class="s1"> </span>취급하는<span class="s1"> </span>남성주의적<span class="s1"> </span>문화적<span class="s1"> </span>산물일까요<span class="s1">, </span>아니면<span class="s1"> </span>여성들이<span class="s1"> </span>스스로<span class="s1"> </span>남성을<span class="s1"> </span>착취하려고<span class="s1"> </span>만든<span class="s1"> </span>문화일까요<span class="s1">.</span></font></p> <p class="p2"><font face="굴림"><br></font></p> <p class="p1"><font face="굴림">앞서<span class="s1"> </span>말했지만<span class="s1"> </span>성차별이<span class="s1"> </span>여성에게만<span class="s1"> </span>불평등한게<span class="s1"> </span>아니란걸<span class="s1"> </span>인지합니다<span class="s1">. </span>아직도<span class="s1"> </span>남성에게<span class="s1"> </span>부당한<span class="s1"> </span>재정적<span class="s1"> </span>짐이<span class="s1"> </span>지워지고<span class="s1">, </span>이혼하면<span class="s1"> </span>친부권이<span class="s1"> </span>불리하고<span class="s1">, </span>남자가<span class="s1"> </span>아이를<span class="s1"> </span>보면<span class="s1"> </span>한심한<span class="s1"> </span>눈빛으로<span class="s1"> </span>보는<span class="s1"> </span>문화가<span class="s1"> </span>있으니까요<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></font></p> <p class="p1"><font face="굴림">또한<span class="s1"> </span>저는<span class="s1"> </span>한국에서<span class="s1"> </span>성평등이<span class="s1"> </span>이루어지려면<span class="s1"> </span>군문제가<span class="s1"> </span>해결되어야<span class="s1"> </span>한다고<span class="s1"> </span>믿습니다<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>하지만<span class="s1"> </span>군문제<span class="s1"> </span>뿐만<span class="s1"> </span>아니라<span class="s1"> </span>가정역할이<span class="s1"> </span>제대로<span class="s1"> </span>분담되려면<span class="s1"> 8</span>주이상의<span class="s1"> </span>육아휴직이<span class="s1"> </span>남성에게<span class="s1"> </span>의무적으로<span class="s1"> </span>행사되도록<span class="s1"> </span>법적제도가<span class="s1"> </span>만들어져야<span class="s1"> </span>된다고<span class="s1"> </span>생각합니다<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></font></p> <p class="p2"><font face="굴림"><br></font></p> <p class="p1"><font face="굴림">다들<span class="s1"> </span>참<span class="s1"> </span>힘든<span class="s1"> </span>세상입니다<span class="s1">. </span>하지만<span class="s1"> </span>내가<span class="s1"> </span>제일<span class="s1"> </span>힘든것<span class="s1"> </span>같으니까<span class="s1"> </span>다른사람의<span class="s1"> </span>고통은<span class="s1"> </span>무시해도<span class="s1"> </span>되는건<span class="s1"> </span>아닙니다<span class="s1">. </span>서로<span class="s1"> </span>다독여주고<span class="s1">, </span>이해해주고<span class="s1"> </span>나은<span class="s1"> </span>세상을<span class="s1"> </span>만들어가면<span class="s1"> </span>참<span class="s1"> </span>좋지<span class="s1"> </span>않겠습니까<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></font></p> <p class="p2"><font face="굴림"><br></font></p> <p class="p1"><font face="굴림">일베가<span class="s1"> </span>날뛸때도<span class="s1"> </span>일베몰이를<span class="s1"> </span>싫어했고<span class="s1"> (</span>국정원의<span class="s1"> </span>공작이<span class="s1"> </span>드러나며<span class="s1"> </span>시선이<span class="s1"> </span>조금<span class="s1"> </span>바뀌었지만<span class="s1">) </span>지금의<span class="s1"> </span>메갈몰이<span class="s1">, </span>트페몰이도<span class="s1"> </span>솔직히<span class="s1"> </span>싫습니다<span class="s1">.<font face="굴림"> 물론 한남몰이, 된장녀몰이도 싫죠.</font></span></font></p> <p class="p1"><font face="굴림">왜<span class="s1"> </span>싫냐하면은<span class="s1">, </span>네이밍을<span class="s1"> </span>하고<span class="s1"> </span>몰이를<span class="s1"> </span>하면<span class="s1"> </span>대화가<span class="s1"> </span>단절되기<span class="s1"> </span>때문입니다<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>다들<span class="s1"> </span>힘든점이<span class="s1"> </span>있으니<span class="s1"> </span>극단적으로<span class="s1"> </span>변화한것이고<span class="s1">, </span>그들의<span class="s1"> </span>행동을<span class="s1"> </span>비난할<span class="s1"> </span>지언정<span class="s1"> </span>이해를<span class="s1"> </span>멈추면<span class="s1"> </span>안됩니다<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>극단의<span class="s1"> </span>해결책은<span class="s1"> </span>또다른<span class="s1"> </span>극단이<span class="s1"> </span>아닌<span class="s1">, </span>대화입니다<span class="s1">. </span>대화가<span class="s1"> </span>단절되고<span class="s1"> </span>혐오만이<span class="s1"> </span>남으면은<span class="s1"> <font face="굴림">정치세력에 의해</font> </span>이용당하기가<span class="s1"> </span>쉬워집니다<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>남여는<span class="s1"> </span>적이<span class="s1"> </span>아닙니다<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></font></p> <p class="p1"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-converted-space"><font face="굴림"><br></font></span></span></p> <p class="p1"><font face="굴림">개인적으로<span class="s1"> </span>얻을것도<span class="s1"> </span>잃을것도<span class="s1"> </span>없지만<span class="s1">, </span>오유의<span class="s1"> </span>양극화가<span class="s1"> </span>안타까워서<span class="s1"> </span>써봅니다<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>건설적<span class="s1"> </span>비판을<span class="s1"> </span>하지<span class="s1"> </span>말라는것이<span class="s1"> </span>아닙니다<span class="s1">.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>다만<span class="s1"> </span>군게가<span class="s1"> </span>적으로<span class="s1"> </span>보는<span class="s1"> </span>페미니스트들이<span class="s1">, </span>적이<span class="s1"> </span>아닌<span class="s1">,<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span>서로<span class="s1"> </span>이해하고<span class="s1"> </span>다독여서<span class="s1"> </span>함께<span class="s1"> </span>나아가야할<span class="s1"> </span>사람들일수도<span class="s1"> </span>있다는걸<span class="s1"> </span>말씀드리고<span class="s1"> </span>싶었습니다<span class="s1">.</span></font></p> <p class="p2"><font face="굴림"><br></font></p> <p class="p2"><br></p>
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