<div style="color:#333333;font-family:'Nanum Gothic';line-height:20px;"> <div style="width:940px;margin:auto;"><font size="1"><br></font> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span class="imageblock" style="display:inline-block;width:400px;height:auto;"><span><font size="1"><img src="http://cfile21.uf.tistory.com/image/2602784652D8886E07D117" width="400" style="height:auto;vertical-align:middle;border:0px;" alt=""></font></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><font size="1"><br></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><font size="1"><br></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1">제가 상담을 하고있는데. 하루 평균 20여 통의 고민상담을 받아요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1">그 중 7할(70%)은 똑같은 얘기예요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1">지금 나는 이러이러한 상태인데 내가 지금 제대로 살고 있는 걸까요?</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1">앞으로 저는 어떻게 살아야 할까요?</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1">그걸 내가 어떻게 알아?</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"></span></font><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">내 앞가림하기도 바쁜데. 그런데 왜 많은 사람들이 어떻게 살아야 할지</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1">모를까요?</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"></span></font><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span class="imageblock" style="display:inline-block;width:421px;height:auto;"><span><font size="1"><img src="http://cfile7.uf.tistory.com/image/215F614452D8883004D176" width="421" style="height:auto;vertical-align:middle;border:0px;" alt=""></font></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"></span></font><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 그 사람들이 어떻게 살아야 될지는 모르는데,</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 그 사람들이 자기가 어떻게 살아야 될지 모르는 이유는 내가 알아요.</span><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#000000;font-family:Tahoma, sans-serif;line-height:19.200000762939453px;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#000000;font-family:Tahoma, sans-serif;line-height:19.200000762939453px;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 왜 모르느냐.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 라깡이라는 사람이 있어요. 약간 유명한 사람이에요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 그 사람이 이런 말을 했습니다.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> "인간은 타자의 욕망을 욕망한다."</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 유명한 사람들은 쉬운 말을 어렵게 합니다.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"></span></font><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#000000;font-family:Tahoma, sans-serif;line-height:19.200000762939453px;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 무슨 소리냐 하면 아이가 태어나면 가장 먼저 엄마 만나겠죠, 보통.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 그리고 그 엄마를 행복하게 만드는 일을 합니다.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 아이가 웃었는데 엄마가 좋아해. 그럼 자꾸 웃어.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 걸었는데 엄마가 박수를 쳐. 아이가 자꾸 걸으려고 해요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 말을 했는데 가족들이 박수쳐주면 자꾸 말을 하려고 하죠.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 누구나 겪는 발달과정이에요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"></span></font><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#000000;font-family:Tahoma, sans-serif;line-height:19.200000762939453px;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 나이가 먹으면 그 대상이 엄마, 선생님,</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 친구들, 친인척, 사회가 되기도 하죠.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 학교 들어가서 공부 잘하면 선생님들이 칭찬합니다.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 그럼 자꾸 공부하고 싶어요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"><br><span style="width:1px;height:1px;float:right;"></span></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span class="imageblock" style="display:inline-block;width:424px;line-height:1.5;height:auto;"><span><font size="1"><img src="http://cfile5.uf.tistory.com/image/2347124452D888310B752E" width="424" style="height:auto;vertical-align:middle;border:0px;line-height:1.5;" alt=""></font></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#000000;font-family:Tahoma, sans-serif;line-height:19.200000762939453px;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 그러니까 인간이 타인의 욕망을 욕망한다는 이야기는</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 애초에는 아이가 태어나서 사회를 배워가는 과정이란 겁니다.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 가장 먼저 하는 게 다른 사람의 욕망을 충족시키는 것이고</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 그렇게 사회를 배워갑니다.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"></span></font><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#000000;font-family:Tahoma, sans-serif;line-height:19.200000762939453px;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 그런데 어느 순간, 내 욕망과 다른 사람의 욕망이</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 구분이 되기 시작해야 되는데 이대로 계속 성장하면</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 내가 어떤 일을 하고 싶은데, 이게 내가 하고 싶어서 하는 건지</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 엄마가 원해서 하는 건지, 선생님이 칭찬해 주니까 하는 건지</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 친구들이 너는 이 정도는 해줄 거라고 기대하니까 하는 건지</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 헷갈리기 시작해요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"></span></font><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#000000;font-family:Tahoma, sans-serif;line-height:19.200000762939453px;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 이렇게 구분이 안 가는 그 상태에서</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 성인이 되는 사람이 굉장히 많습니다.</span><span style="color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;background-color:transparent;"> </span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 우리나라에서 그렇게 나이를 먹고 서른, 마흔이 되고</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 어느 순간 문득 깨닫습니다.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 이때까지 했던 게 사실은 내가 원한 게 아니었다는 걸 말이죠.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span class="imageblock" style="display:inline-block;width:428px;height:auto;"><span><font size="1"><img src="http://cfile24.uf.tistory.com/image/2263414452D88831037D3A" width="428" style="height:auto;vertical-align:middle;border:0px;" alt=""></font></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><br></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1">골때리죠, 인생 돌아가서 다시 살 수도 없잖아요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 자기 욕망을 정확히 이해할 수 없다는 건</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"></span></font><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 자기가 언제 행복한지 모른다는 거고,</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 언제 행복한지 모르는데 자기가 뭘 하고 싶은지 어떻게 알아.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 남들이 어떻게 하는지만 궁금 한거지. 불안하니까.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1"> 그게 첫 번째 이유에요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><br></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span class="imageblock" style="display:inline-block;width:424px;height:auto;"><span><font size="1"><img src="http://cfile4.uf.tistory.com/image/22421A4452D88832335545" width="424" style="height:auto;vertical-align:middle;border:0px;" alt=""></font></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"></span></font><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#000000;font-family:Tahoma, sans-serif;line-height:19.200000762939453px;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 20대, 30대 여성의 메일의 절반 이상은 또 이런 메일입니다.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 어떤 남자가 있다. 오래 사귀었다. 미래가 불안하다.</span><span style="color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;background-color:transparent;"> </span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1">근데. 새로운 남자가 나타났다. 이 남자가 말은 잘 안통할지 몰라도</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 조건이 좋다. 누구랑 결혼해야 하나.</font></span></p> <div style="text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></div> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 20대 중반에서 30대 중반 여성들이 보내는 고민 메일의 절반입니다.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 수만 명이 보낸 메일 중, 바뀌는 거라고는 그 남자들의 직업 밖에 없어.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 그러니까 사랑인가요, 조건인가요? 이런 얘기죠.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"></span></font><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#000000;font-family:Tahoma, sans-serif;line-height:19.200000762939453px;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 사실 이 질문도 바보 같은 질문이에요.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 왜 바보 같은 질문이에요?</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 아까랑 똑같은 이윤데,</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span class="imageblock" style="display:inline-block;width:423px;height:auto;"><span><font size="1"><img src="http://cfile28.uf.tistory.com/image/2758784452D88833065ADB" width="423" style="height:auto;vertical-align:middle;border:0px;" alt=""></font></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"></span></font><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 어떤 사람은 모피를 입고 명품가방을 들고</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 넓은 아파트에서 외제차 타면 조금 사랑이 부족해도</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 잘 사는 사람이 있습니다.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"></span></font><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#000000;font-family:Tahoma, sans-serif;line-height:19.200000762939453px;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 정반대로 재벌가에 시집을 가도 사랑이 부족하면</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 이혼해야 되는 사람도 있어요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 그러니까 사실은 사랑이냐 조건이냐가 아니고</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 그 사람이 어떤 사람이냐에 달린 거죠.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"></span></font><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span class="imageblock" style="display:inline-block;width:420px;height:auto;"><span><font size="1"><img src="http://cfile8.uf.tistory.com/image/250E014452D888343DDDC9" width="420" style="height:auto;vertical-align:middle;border:0px;" alt=""></font></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"></span></font><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#000000;font-family:Tahoma, sans-serif;line-height:19.200000762939453px;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#000000;font-family:Tahoma, sans-serif;line-height:19.200000762939453px;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 그럼, 이 질문은 사실은 이런 거죠.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> “저는 언제 행복한 사람인지 대신 말해주세요.”라고</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 저한테 묻는 거예요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;"></span></font><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#000000;font-family:Tahoma, sans-serif;line-height:19.200000762939453px;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 내가 스스로 욕망의 주인이 되서 주체가 돼서</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 다른 모든 사람의 욕망을 제쳐두고 내가 언제 행복한지를</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 나하고 일대일로 만나서 내가 정말 원하는 게 뭔가</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1"> 한 번도 생각해 본 적이 없는 겁니다.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 생각해 본 적이 없기 때문에 불안해서</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 다른 사람한테 계속 묻는 거예요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font size="1"> 내가 언제 행복한지 말해주세요. 바보같은 소리예요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1"> 남들이 내가 언제 행복한지 어떻게 알아.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> </span><br style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#000000;font-family:Tahoma, sans-serif;line-height:19.200000762939453px;"><span style="padding:0px;margin:0px;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"> 청춘한테 필요한 첫 번째는 자기가 자기 욕망의 주인이 되는 거예요.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><font size="1"><br></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><br></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span class="imageblock" style="display:inline-block;width:473px;line-height:1.5;height:auto;background-color:transparent;"><span><font size="1"><img src="http://cfile10.uf.tistory.com/image/240F743F52D88834015795" width="473" style="height:auto;vertical-align:middle;border:0px;line-height:1.5;background-color:transparent;" alt=""></font></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">1:1로 자기를 마주보고 내가 정말 원하는게 뭘까?</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">나를 흥분시키고 나를 행복하게 만드는 첫 번째는 무엇인가?</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">스스로 물어봐야 합니다.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">이과정이 정말 어려워요.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">그렇게해서 자기 욕망의 주인 되는 법을 알았다고 칩시다.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">그 다음에 해야 할 일은?</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">그냥 그 일을 하는겁니다.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span class="imageblock" style="display:inline-block;width:478px;height:auto;"><span><font size="1"><img src="http://cfile23.uf.tistory.com/image/216D9D3F52D888350AC860" width="478" style="height:auto;vertical-align:middle;border:0px;" alt=""></font></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">사람들이 어떤 일을 하고 싶을때</span></font><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;background-color:transparent;">제일먼저 하는게 뭔지 아세요?</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">다른사람들한테 그일이 얼마나 어려운지 설명하는거에요<br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">왜? 그 일을 실패 했을 때 자기가 못난 사람이 안되려고.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">주변에서 왜 그 일을 안하고 있냐고 물어보면 화를 냅니다.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">넌 그일이 얼마나 어려운지 몰라서 그래 임마.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span class="imageblock" style="display:inline-block;width:474px;height:auto;"><span><font size="1"><img src="http://cfile2.uf.tistory.com/image/2501C13F52D8883605B002" width="474" style="height:auto;vertical-align:middle;border:0px;" alt=""></font></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span style="line-height:1.5;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span style="line-height:1.5;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span style="line-height:1.5;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1">그렇게 어렵다고 설명을 하다가 자기가 설득이 되요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span style="line-height:28px;"><font size="1">그리고 마침내 그일을 안하게 되죠.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span style="line-height:28px;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span style="line-height:28px;"><font size="1">이 세상에서 어떤 일을 하는 가장 확실한 방법은 </font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span style="line-height:28px;"><font size="1">그냥 그일을 하는겁니다.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span style="line-height:28px;"><font size="1">실패했을때 얼마나 타격이 큰가 아닌가를 </font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span style="line-height:28px;"><font size="1">따지지않고 하는거에요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span style="line-height:28px;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span style="line-height:28px;"><font size="1">그게 성공을 보장하지는 않아요. </font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span style="line-height:28px;"><font size="1">하지만 그게 삶의 후회를 없애줘요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span style="line-height:28px;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span style="line-height:28px;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span class="imageblock" style="display:inline-block;width:469px;height:auto;"><span><font size="1"><img src="http://cfile9.uf.tistory.com/image/2175693F52D888370802D6" width="469" style="height:auto;vertical-align:middle;border:0px;" alt=""></font></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">하고싶은 것도 찾았고, 그냥 하면 된다는 것도 깨달았어요.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">근데 그걸 언제 해야하나?</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1">당장. 지금 당장.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1"><br></font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><span style="color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;background-color:transparent;"><font size="1">사람들은 이렇게 말해요.</font></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span class="imageblock" style="display:inline-block;width:474px;height:auto;"><span><font size="1"><img src="http://cfile10.uf.tistory.com/image/2179193F52D888380875E9" width="474" style="height:auto;vertical-align:middle;border:0px;" alt=""></font></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">내가 당장 그일을 하고 싶어도</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">지금은 그일을 위해 열심히 모으거나 </span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">준비를 해야할 </span></font><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;background-color:transparent;">시기라고요.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">행복은 적금처럼 나중에 쓸수있을거라 생각해요.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">그런 일은 절대 일어나지 않습니다.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">나중에 가서 행복해지자? 그 순간은 시간이 지나면</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">영원히 사라지는거예요.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">당장 행복해져야 하는 거죠.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span class="imageblock" style="display:inline-block;width:478px;height:auto;"><span><font size="1"><img src="http://cfile2.uf.tistory.com/image/273EE83F52D888393B065A" width="478" style="height:auto;vertical-align:middle;border:0px;" alt=""></font></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">그렇게 살면 내 인생이 어떻게 되는거냐? 물으면?</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">내알바 아니죠.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">그런데 이런 얘기는 해드리죠.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">어떤 기관에서 40대 성공한 사람들을 조사한적이있는데</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">그사람들 대부분은 20-30대에 어떤 한가지 일을 시작해 </span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">40대까지</span></font><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;background-color:transparent;">해서 성공한것이 아니라 대부분 </span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;background-color:transparent;">전혀 상관없는 일들을 그렇게 많이 </span><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;color:#252525;font-family:Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin;background-color:transparent;">했다고 합니다.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;clear:none;float:none;"><span class="imageblock" style="display:inline-block;width:476px;height:auto;"><span><font size="1"><img src="http://cfile8.uf.tistory.com/image/2267093F52D8883A0B230D" width="476" style="height:auto;vertical-align:middle;border:0px;" alt=""></font></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">그러다 그 순간에 자기가 해보고 싶었던 일에 주저없이 </span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">뛰어 든겁니다.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">그러다 아니면 딴 걸 하고 미루지않았던 거예요. 그 즉시즉시.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">계획만큼 웃긴것도 없습니다.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">계획한 대로 될 리는 없어요.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">행복하게 닥치는 대로 살아요.</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:center;"><font color="#252525" face="Gulim, Dotum, SunGulim, Eunjin" size="1"><span style="line-height:16px;white-space:pre-wrap;">졸라 짧아요 인생</span></font></p> <p style="margin:0px 0px 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