<p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">울 큰아들이 3~4살 무렵 외가댁에 갔다가</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">우연히 나의 외삼촌을 만나게 되었다.</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">산책을 가자며 울 아들의 손을잡고 나가셨던 외삼촌은</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">근처 작은 가게에 들러서 3천원인가 하는 </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">그...사탕하나 들어있고 쓸데없는 장난감이 들어있는</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">그런 장난감을 울아들에게 사주셨고 녀석은 </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">아주 자랑스럽고 소중하게 그 장난감을 들고 들어 왔다.</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">그 자라에 있던 모든 사람들의 공통적인 생각은</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">'저 쓸데없는걸 왜 사줘?.....ㅉㅉㅉ' 였으리라......</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">그러나 외삼촌은 계획이 있으셨다.</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">'부모는 말이다. 애한테 장난감 사준다고 하면 좋은거 비싼거</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">뭐 그런거 찾거든....그런데 정작 아이들이 원하는건 당장 눈에 띄는</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">몇천원짜리란 말이지. 부모들은 자기들 욕심에 절대 그런거 못 사주거든</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">그러니 어쩌겠니. 내가 사줘야지...'</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">맞다 아들녀석의 눈빛은 유난히도 반짝이고 있었고 </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">그 어떤 장난감 보다 더  그 장난감에 집중하고 있었다.</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">허접하고 조립을 해야하고 조립하기도 어렵고</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">어렵게 조립해도 작동도 잘 안되는 그 장난감에 </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">녀석은 아주아주 만족하고 있었다.</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">우리는 어린이 날이라며 아이의 손을 잡고 마트에 혹은 장난감 가게에</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">가고는 한다.</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">그리고 아이가 원하는 장난감이 아닌</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">부모의 마음에 흡족할 만한 장난감을 선택하라고 강요를 한다.</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">아마도 평소 아이에게 소홀했던 마음의 짐도 덜어내야 한테니</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">적당히 비싼것을 고르기를 은근히 바라면서 말이지.</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">그러나 정작 아이가 원하는 것은</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">퇴근한 부모의 손을 잡고 목적없이 나가는 산책일지도 모른다.</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">그 산책에서 우연히 마주친 길고양이와의 조우일지도 모른다.</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">그렇게 돌아 오는 길에 그냥 들러본 작은 가게에서 득템한</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">허접한 장난감일지도 모른다.</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">외삼촌을 말씀 하셨다.</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">'저 조그마한 녀석을 만족시키는데는 몇천원으로 충분하거든</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">저 몇천원짜리로 저렇게 행복해 하잖아.</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">나이가 들면 더 많은 돈으로 행복하게 해주어야 하지만 </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">지금은 몇천원이면 저 녀석 인생 최대의 행복을 줄 수 있을때야'</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">이제 곧 어린이 날이다.</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">그날 하루만이라도 어른의 기준으로 아이에게 행복을 강요하지</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">않았으면 좋겠다....</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">당신의 아이를 보라. 놀이공원에 있는 것이 행복한 것인지</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">아님 부모가 내 말을 들어주고 같이 있어주는 것이 좋은 것인지</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';"> </span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">한번 생각해 봐야 하지 않을까?</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;font-family:helveticaneue, 'applesdgothicneo-regular', arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> </p> <p style="padding:0px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic';">=> 얘들한테 뿐만 아니라 다른 때에도, 우리는 받는쪽이 아니라, 주는 자기 자신의 만족을 기준으로 결정하는게 아닐까 다시 한번 생각해 보게 되네요.</span> </p> <p style="padding:0px;font-family:HelveticaNeue, 'AppleSDGothicNeo-Regular', Arial, sans-serif;font-size:14px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> </p> <p style="padding:0px;font-family:HelveticaNeue, 'AppleSDGothicNeo-Regular', Arial, sans-serif;font-size:14px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> </p> <p style="padding:0px;font-family:HelveticaNeue, 'AppleSDGothicNeo-Regular', Arial, sans-serif;font-size:14px;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:25px;color:#303038;background-color:#ffffff;"> </p>