<p style="text-align:center;"> <img src="http://thimg.todayhumor.co.kr/upfile/202102/16134777002746b120772945fbaa4388828c575f6b__mn635333__w800__h535__f76514__Ym202102.jpg" alt="2020 P1000021.JPG" style="width:800px;height:535px;" filesize="76514"></p> <p style="text-align:center;"> </p> <p style="text-align:center;"> </p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">"피해자를 만나 직접 사과하고 싶다"</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">학폭 가해자들이 자주 하는 말이다</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> </p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">이제는 무슨 공식화된 문구마냥,</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">학폭사실이 드러나면, 하나같이 저런 말을 하는데,</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">이건 아직까지도 피해자들의 입장에 공감하지 못하고 있다는 반증으로 보인다</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">가해자 본인이 처한 작금의 상황을 타개하기 위해,</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">또는 스스로 마음의 위안을 얻고자 하는 행동일뿐,</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">전혀 피해자의 입장을 생각해보고 취하는 행동이 아니잖어</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">피해자의 입장에서 본인에게 큰 트라우마를 안겨준 당사자가</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">사과하겠다며 만나러 온다하면, 반갑게 맞이해줄 사람이 몇이나 될까</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">그 행동자체가 고통을 상기시키고, 또다른 트라우마를 안겨주는거 아닐까</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">끝까지 피해자에게 감정이입이 되지 않으니까</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">자기 편한대로 생각하고 행동할뿐..</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">피해자 스스로가 판단하고 결단낼때까지,</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">가해자는 그냥 조용히 반성하고 있는게 바람직하지 않을까 싶다</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">"어린 시절 철없을때 한 행동, 반성한다"</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">.. 이것 역시도 가해자들이 자주 하는 말.</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">대부분의 학생은 그런 비행 없이 평범하게 성인이 된다</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">저런 말로 괜히 본인의 행동에 타당성을 부여하지 말았으면 좋겠다</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">학창시절때부터 하는 생각이지만,</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">저런 학폭이나 왕따 가해자들보면, 그 심리가 이해가 안가..</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">내가 가해자의 입장이라고 가정해보면</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">폭력행위를 한 후, 마음이 너무 불편할것 같은데 ?</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">아니면 마음속으로는 울면서, 겉으로만 때리는 뭐 그런거야 ?</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">암만 다양한 측면으로 생각해보려 해도 이해하기가 쉽지 않다</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">나도 배구를 즐겨본지 10년이 넘고,</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">근래처럼 배구계에 혼란한 분위기가 감돈 적이 잘 없었던것 같지만,</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">실력이 좋은 선수라고 감싸고 도는 분위기는 사라져야 한다.</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">그런 선수들이 국제대회에 나가 좋은 성적을 거둔다 한들</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">결코 자랑스럽거나 기분이 좋지는 않을거다.</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">학폭가해자는 사회적으로 성공하기 힘들다는 분위기가</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">우리사회 전반에 깊숙히 박혀야 한다고 생각.</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">그런 점에서 요즘 학폭가해자들에 대한 사람들의 강한 비판은</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">상당히 유의미한 행동이라고 생각한다</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">학폭가해자들에게 면죄부를 줘서, 피해자들에게 박탈감을 주거나</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">학폭 "따위", 내가 성공하는데 전혀 지장을 주지 않는다라는</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">그런 생각이, 더이상 통하는 사회가 아니라는걸 보여줘야 한다</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">최소한 '내일따윈 난 몰라' 하는 수준의 애들이 아니라면,</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">본인의 미래를 위해서라도, 학교폭력이 많이 줄어들지 않을까..싶다</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">물론 물리적인 폭력만 행사하지 않을뿐,</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">누군가를 괴롭히고 싶어하는 애들은,</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> <br></p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">어떤 방법으로든 그 티를 내면서 살겠지만..</p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> </p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> </p> <p align="center" style="padding:0px;line-height:1.5;color:#636363;font-family:'돋움';font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;"> </p> <p style="text-align:center;"> </p>