<div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">안녕하세요</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">이변변이라고 합니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">이메일을 통한</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';"> </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">무료법률상담을 꽤 오래 진행해서 절 아는 분들도 있을 것이라 생각합니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">최근 넘 바빠져서 실시간으로 체크는 못했지만 그래도 짬나는 대로 이메일 주시면 성실히 답변해드리고 있습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><a><u><span lang="en-us" style="color:rgb(0,0,255);letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">
[email protected]</span></u></a><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';"> </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">으로 상담 요청하시면 최대한 도움이 되시는 방향으로 답변해드립니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span> </span></div> <div></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">오랜만에 글을 쓰게 된 사연은 이렇습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">최근 제가</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';"> </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">법인에서 성범죄를 전담하며</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">, </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">수많은 성범죄</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">(</span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">가해자 변호</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">, </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">피해자 고소</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">)</span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">를 다루면서 오유인과 공유하고 싶은 것이 있어서 입니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span> </span></div> <div></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">폭행과 협박을 동원해 잔인하게 여성을 강간한 사건의 경우 딱히 말씀드릴 것이 없습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">엄벌에 처해야겠지요</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">하지만 요즘 이런 사건보다는 이른바 </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">'</span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">준강간</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">' , </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">즉 술에 취한 여성분과 성관계를 가진 일이 성범죄로 비화되는 사건이 급속도로 늘고 있습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">관련된 법조문은 이렇습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">"</span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">제</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">299</span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">조</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">(</span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">준강간</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">, </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">준강제추행</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">) </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">사람의 심신상실 또는 항거불능의 상태를 이용하여 간음 또는 추행을 한 자는 </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">3</span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">년 이상의 유기징역에 처한다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">."</span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">결국 여성분이 술에 취해서 심신상실 또는 항거불능의 상태에 있는데 그 분과 성관계를 가지면 폭력과 협박을 통해 강제로 강간한 것과 똑같이 처벌한다는 것입니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">부끄럽게도 전 평생 나이트클럽을 한 번도 가보지 않아서 잘은 모르지만</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">, </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">한 </span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">10</span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">년 전만해도 이른바 </span><a><u><span lang="en-us" style="color:rgb(0,0,255);letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">'@</span></u><u><span style="color:rgb(0,0,255);font-family:'굴림';">뱅이</span></u><u><span lang="en-us" style="color:rgb(0,0,255);letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">'</span></u></a><span style="font-family:'굴림';">라고 해서 술에 취해 뻗어 있는 </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">여성분을 데려다가 간음하는 행위가 공공연하게 벌어졌다고 알고 있습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">이것 전부 다 강간입니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">찔리시는 분도 있겠지요</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">.</span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span> </span></div> <div></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">좀 더 구체적으로</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';"> </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">전형적으로 무슨 일이 벌어지는지 묘사해보겠습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">남성과 여성이 만납니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">어떻게 누구와 어디서 만났는지는 상관없습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">여성분이 술에 상당히 취했습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">남성분은 여성분에게 상당한 호감을</span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">가지게 됩니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">적극적으로 어필해보았는데 딱히 거부하지 않는 것으로 보아 긍정적으로 보입니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">용기를 내서 스킨십을 시도해봅니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">역시나 딱히 거부하지 않습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">그러다 모텔로 자리를 옮기고 성관계를 가지게 됩니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">그리고 각자 헤어집니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span> </span></div> <div></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">다음 날 일어나니 여성분은 어제밤 일이 기억이 나지 않습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">술을 많이 마셨던 것 같은데 그 이후는</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';"> </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">잘 기억이 나지 않습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">그러다 어제 동석했던 남성이 자신에게 스킨십을 하고 어쩌고 했던 장면이 드문드문 기억납니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">주위에 물어보니 일단 검사부터 하라고 해서 물어물어 해바라기 센터를 찾아가 키트검사를 합니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">정액 등 성관계의 증거가 나옵니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">여성분은 남성분을 고소합니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span> </span></div> <div></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">남성분은 갑자기 청천벽력입니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">자신은 분명히 합의하에 성관계를 가졌는데 강간이라고 합니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">수사기관에 찾아가서 항변해보았지만 강간범 취급을 합니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">.</span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">수천만원의</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';"> </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">목돈을 지급하고 합의해 끝이 나면 정말 운이 좋은 케이스입니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">심지어 구속이 되기도 합니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">평생 감방이라고는 처음 가봅니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">법원에서 결국 유죄 판결이 나옵니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">직장도 가족도 친구관계도 모두 잃습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">평생 성범죄자로 낙인찍히고 심지어는 이사를 갈때마다 자신의 거취를 신고하고 경찰이 관리합니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">.</span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span> </span></div> <div></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">위와 같은 일에서 사실관계만 조금씩 다른 사안을 너무 많이 경험합니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">.</span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">가해자에게는 돌이킬 수 없는 오점이 되고</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">, </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">피해자에게는 씻을 수 없는 상처가 됩니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">아예 이런 일이 없도록 모두가 조심해야 합니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span> </span></div> <div></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span> </span></div> <div></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">3</span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">줄 요약입니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span> </span></div> <div></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">남성분들</span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">1. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">애인이 아니면</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';"> </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">만취한 여성분과는 아예 잠자리를 가지지 마세요</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">.</span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">2. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">만취한건지 아닌지 아리까리해도 아예 잠자리를 가지지 마세요</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">.</span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">3. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">그래도 어쩔수 없이 잠자리를 가졌고</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">, </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">상대방 여성이 이를 문제삼을 것 같으면 첫 진술 전에 변호사와 상담하세요</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">첫 진술 망치면 복구하기 어렵습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span> </span></div> <div></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">여성분들 </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">1. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">준강간을 당한 것 같으면 바로 가장 가까운 경찰서나 해바라기센터를 찾아가세요</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">경험상 해바라기센터가 훨씬 친절하고 효과적입니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">2. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">국가가 지정해준 국선변호사와 바로 상담하세요</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">초기에만 확보 가능한</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';"> </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">증거를 수집하도록</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';"> </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">도와줄 겁니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">3. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">최근 고소했는데 무혐의가 되면서 오히려 여성분이 무고죄로 역고소 당하는 건이 늘고 있습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">아무리 화나도 거짓말을 하시면 절대 안 됩니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">거짓말만 안하시면 증거불충분으로 무혐의가 나도 무고는 걱정안하셔도 됩니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span> </span></div> <div></div> <div style="line-height:120%;"><span> </span></div> <div></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';"> ps. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">변호사를 정식으로 선임하지 않더라도</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';"> </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">상담료</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">(10</span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">만원 정도</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">)</span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">만 지급하시면 충분한 조언을 넣을 수 있습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">.</span></div> <div style="line-height:120%;letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="font-family:'굴림';">일단 수백만원의</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';"> </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">수임료를 지급하고 선임할 것을 요구하는 변호사는 돈만 목적일 가능성이 높습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">. </span><span style="font-family:'굴림';">피하세요</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'굴림';">.</span></div>
