<p> <span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">현재 어머니와 아버지는 서류상만 부부이며</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">이혼한 것과 마찬가지인 상태입니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">아버지의 카톡 대화내용과 통화 자동 녹음본을 통해서 바람 정황이 드러났고,</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">어머니와 아버지는 25년의 결혼생활이 끝나게 됩니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">저와 제 동생은 어머니와 살고 있으며, 어머니의 아버지를 향한 미련은 없어 보입니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">사건은 6년 후 현재, 아버지의 생일날이 되어 시작됩니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">6년동안 어머니께서는 "어찌되었든 내자식의 아버지"라는 이유로 1년에 한두번씩 같이 밥을 먹었습니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">올해는 그게 아버지의 생일 날 이었고, 어머니께서 아버지를 집으로 초대 하셨습니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">동생은 퇴근길에 어머니의 심부름으로 소주와 반찬을 사왔고 집에와서 케잌을 주문했습니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">그시점에서 저는 짜증이 확 났습니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">"무슨 케잌까지 사다줘!!!"</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">"촛불까지 키려고?!!!"</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">동생은</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">"어, 촛불켜야지.왜? 싫어? 엄마랑 같이 방에 들어가 있으면 되잖아."</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">제가</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">"말이 되는 소리를 해라."</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">"그냥 촛불 불지말고 냉장고에 넣어 놨다가 아빠 가기전에 전달만 해!!"</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">동생이</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">"그럴거면 왜 불러!!!, 애초에 부르지도 말지!!!"</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">"연끊을 거면 완전 끊던가!!!"</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">"나 아빠 오랜만에 보는데 딸로서 케잌도 못해줘?!!!"</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">저는</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">"아빠가 그립고 보고싶고 축해 해주고 싶으면 약속 잡고 둘이 봐~ 엄마 있는데서 이래야돼?!!!!"</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">"엄마 생각은 안해?!!!엄마한테 물어봤어?!!!"</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">동생은</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">"나한테는 물어봤어, 아빠 와도 되냐고?"</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">"겨우 케잌하나 가지고 난리야!!!"</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">저는</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">"엄마집에서 엄마가 허락하면 되지, 니 허락이 왜 필요하냐?"</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">"그럴거면 나가~ 독립해!!!"</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">동생은</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">"알았어 나갈게 나가면 되잖아~월세구해서 나갈거야!!!"</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">하면서 집을 나갔습니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">동생은 나흘 있다가 집에 돌아왔고</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">어색하게 지내다가 얼마 안있어서 어머니 생신을 기점으로 서로 화해 했습니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">하지만 저는 집나가라고 한것에 대해서만 사과를 하였고</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">아직 케잌을 사온것에 대해 불만이 남아 있습니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">아직도 이해가 가지 않고 답답합니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">나중에 어머니께 물어보니 케잌 주문한거 마음에 안드셨다고 했습니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">동생은, 자기도 어머니 생각 충분히 하고 나름 효도하고 있는데, 사소한 케잌 하나로 자신을 불효자로 매도 하는 제가 너무 밉고 이해가 안된다고 합니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">저는, 어머니한테 잘하고 있는것 과는 별개로 사소한 실수라도 인정할건 인정하고 사과하면 되는 문제인데, 자존심 부리는 것처럼 느껴집니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">물론 사건당일 동생을 따로 불러서 조곤조곤 잘 예기한 후,</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">아버지 댁에 돌아가시는 길에 그냥 전달만했다면 일이 커지지는 않았을 거라는 후회는 하고 있습니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">근데 제가 헛갈리는건</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">진짜로 케잌이 문제가 아니라고 생각하는것인지</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">아니면 지기싫어서 고집 부리는 건지 모르겠습니다.</span><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><br style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;"><span style="color:#303030;font-family:'굴림', Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif;background-color:#ffffff;">여러분들도 케잌이 문제가 아니라고 생각하시나요?</span> </p>
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