<p style="font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';font-size:9pt;"> </span></p><p></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;"><br></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-size:9pt;">안녕하세요 인생선배님들</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">..</span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-size:9pt;">저는 </span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">26</span><span style="font-size:9pt;">살 직장인입니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">.</span><span style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">ㅠㅠ </span><span style="font-size:9pt;">혼전임신 관련해서 조언을 얻고자 글을 씁니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">..</span></p> <p style="font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';font-size:9pt;"> </span></p><p></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-size:9pt;">제가 생리주기가 일정한 편이여서 예정일보다 일주일 넘게 생리소식이 없길래 불안하더라구요</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">. </span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;">그래서 임테기를 사서 테스트를 해봤어요</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'-윤고딕310';">.. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;">근데</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'-윤고딕310';">.. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;">설마설마</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'-윤고딕310';">..</span><span style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;">했는데 두줄이 뜨는거에요 </span><span style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;">ㅠㅠ</span><span style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;">너무나도 선명하게</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'-윤고딕310';">... </span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;">그래서 일단 남자친구에게 급하게 전화해서 소식을 알리니까 바로 찾아와서 밤늦게까지 고민고민 했답니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'-윤고딕310';">...</span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;">근데 저희도 너무 급작스럽고 당장 믿기지도 않아서 그냥</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'-윤고딕310';">..</span><span style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;">멘붕 멘붕</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-size:9pt;letter-spacing:0pt;font-family:'-윤고딕310';">..</span></p> <p style="font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';font-size:9pt;"> </span></p><p></p> <p style="font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';font-size:9pt;"><br></span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-size:9pt;">남자친구는 지금 </span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">28</span><span style="font-size:9pt;">살로 </span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">2</span><span style="font-size:9pt;">년이 좀 넘게 만났는데</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">, </span><span style="font-size:9pt;">서로 너무 잘 맞아 결혼에 대한 얘기도 많이 나눴고 어느정도 계획도 한 상태였어요</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">.</span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">1</span><span style="font-size:9pt;">년</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">~1</span><span style="font-size:9pt;">년 반쯤 더 연애하고 결혼해서 신혼을 </span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">2</span><span style="font-size:9pt;">년정도 갖다가 나중에 출산에 대한건 이야기 나눠보기로 했었거든요</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">.. </span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-size:9pt;">왜냐하면 지금 둘이서 함께 하는 삶도 더 즐기고 싶고</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">, </span><span style="font-size:9pt;">충분히 우리끼리의 삶을 살다가 아기는 천천히 생각하기로 했는데</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">... </span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-size:9pt;">그런데 저희의 예상보다 너무 빨리</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">..</span><span style="font-size:9pt;">심지어 혼전에 임신이 되버려서</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">.. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;">너무 당황스럽게 어찌할지 모르겠습니다</span><span style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">ㅠㅠ </span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-size:9pt;">일단 이번주 주말에 병원에 가서 검사를 받아보려구요</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">..</span></p> <p style="font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';font-size:9pt;"> </span></p><p></p> <p style="font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';font-size:9pt;"><br></span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-size:9pt;">물론 피임에 철저하지 못했던 저희의 책임이니까 후회할수는 없겠지만 어떤 준비도없이</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">, </span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-size:9pt;">생전 처음겪는 일에 대해서 두려운 마음이 앞서는것은 사실입니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">.. </span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;"><span style="font-size:9pt;">앞으로의 계획에 대해 인생선배님들의 조언이나 마음가짐을 듣고싶어서 글을 씁니다 </span><span style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-size:9pt;">ㅠㅠ</span></p> <p><span style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';"> </span></p><p></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;">일단 저희 계획을 한번 써볼게요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">..</span></p> <p><span style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';"> </span></p><p></p> <p><span style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';"><br></span></p> <p><span style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';"><br></span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;">-결혼식 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">: </span>배가 불러오기 전에 최대 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">3</span>월 안에 식을 올리려고 생각중<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">. (</span>지금 예상 임신 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">3~4</span>주차<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">) </span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;">지금부터 틈틈이 준비해서 스드메<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>식장대관<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>식사 등 주말마다 찾아가서 알아보고 예약하기 </p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">(</span>걱정되는건<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">.. 3</span>개월 안에 결혼식을 올린다는게 가능<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">..</span>할는지 모르겠어요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">..)</span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;">-직장 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">: </span>남자친구는 현재 다니고 있는 직장을 계속 다니고 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">(</span>대리급<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">), </span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;">저는<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">... 1</span>월 말까지 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">(</span>제가 맡고있는 직책 때문에 그때까지는 일해야 할 것 같습니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">) </span>일한 후 퇴사<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">.. </span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;">그리고 식 올리고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>제가 그림그리는 사람이라 일을 관둔 후에는 집에서 프리랜서로 할 수 있는 일을 알아보려구요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">..</span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;"></span>육아와 함께 병행하려면 아이가 어느정도 클 때까지는 한명이 집에 있어야 할테니까요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">..)</span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';"></span>-집 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">: </span>제가 자취를 하고 있는데 이게 골치네요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">..</span><span style="letter-spacing:0pt;">ㅠㅠ </span>이사한지 얼마 안되서 전세 계약기간이 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">1</span>년 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">9</span>개월정도 남았는데<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;">둘이면 모를까 애기가 나오면 셋인데<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>투룸으로라도 이사를 해야겠지요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;">일단 이사를 생각해두고<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>지금 있는 집은 아직 계획이 없어요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">...</span>막막해요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">,,</span><span style="letter-spacing:0pt;">ㅠㅠ</span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;">-부모님께 알리기 <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">: </span>식<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>직장<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>집에 대한 계획이 어느정도 틀이 잡혀야 서로 부모님께도</p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;"> 말씀을 드릴 수 있을 것 같은데<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span>사실 이게 제일 걱정이에요<span style="letter-spacing:0pt;">ㅠㅠㅠ</span>소식을 어떻게 알려야 할지<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;">남자친구를 오래 만나고 있는 건 알고 계신데<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>명절이랑 어머니 생신때 선물이 오간적만 있지 </p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;">한번도 얼굴을 뵌적이 없어서<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span>하<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span>많이 걱정하시고 또 속상하시겠죠<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">.. </span>휴<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;">-결혼<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">/</span>육아에 대한 남자친구와 저의 계획과 다짐 : <span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;"> </span>하<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">.. </span>아무런 준비도 없다가 갑작스레 생긴 아기이기에 </p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;">두려움이 너무나도 큽니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span>서로 지금 당장 엄마<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>아빠가 될 수 있을지 아직 생각해 본 적이 없어서</p> <p style="letter-spacing:0pt;"> 너무 무섭고 두려워요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span>어떤 마음가짐을 먹어야 할까요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">..? </span>저희가 잘 할 수 있을까요<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">..?</span></p> <p><span style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';"> </span></p><p></p> <p><span style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';"><br></span></p> <p><span style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';"><br></span></p> <p><span style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';"><br></span></p> <p><span style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';"><br></span></p> <p>긴 글 읽어주셔서 감사합니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span>저희 계획을 보시고 인생 선배들의 이런저런 조언을 듣고 싶습니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">...</span><span style="letter-spacing:0pt;">ㅠㅠㅠ</span>감사합니다<span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'-윤고딕310';letter-spacing:0pt;">.. </span></p>