<div><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">난</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">사위</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">뿐만</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">아니라</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">며느리도</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">백년손님이라고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">생각한다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span></div> <div><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"><br></span></div> <div><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">근</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">십년</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">전</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">나의</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">부모님께</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">미래의</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">내</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">아내를</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">며느리님</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">(</span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">며늘님</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">) </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">혹은</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">ㅇㅇ씨</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">로</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> 칭하고 존대어를 써</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">달라고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">진지하게</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">부탁드린</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">적이</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">있었다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">이게</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">안되면</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> 미래 </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">고부간에</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">원만하고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">평화로운</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">관계</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">유지를</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">위해</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">되도록</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">안</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">데리고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">와야겠다고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">생각하고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">있었는데</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">, </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">의외로</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">잘</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">받아들여주셨다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"><br></span></div> <div><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">몇</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">번</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">, </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">전</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">애인을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">데리고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">왔을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">때</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">내</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">염려에도</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">불구하고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">존칭과</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">존대를</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">자연스럽게</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">잘</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">해</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">주신</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">덕분에</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">분위기가</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">제법</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">화기애애</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">했는데</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">, </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">설거지를</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">도맡아</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">하려거나</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">과일을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">깎으려는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">등</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">전통적인</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">며느리상을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">실천하려는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">애인분과</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">, </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">존칭을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">쓰고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">애정</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">담은</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">존대를</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">하는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">내</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">어머니와의</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">대화가</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">재밌어서</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">뒤에서</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">함박미소를</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">짓고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">있었던</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">기억이</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">난다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"><br></span></div> <div><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">또한</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">아들만</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">둘</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">낳으시고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">딸을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">갖고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">싶다는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">(</span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">며느리를</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">딸로</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">여기고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">싶다는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">) </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">어머니의</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">바람을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">설득하여</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">포기토록</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">한</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">것은</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">참</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">잘한일이라고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">생각한다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">며느리는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">절대</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">딸이</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">아니고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">딸이</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">되어서도</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">안된다고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">생각한다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span></div> <div><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"><br></span></div> <div><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">내가</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">데려온</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">애인이고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">부모님께</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">물려받은</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">유전자를</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">발전</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">, </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">영속시키는데</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">크게</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">기여할지도</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">모를</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">미래의</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">은인이며</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">고부관계는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">나와</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">애인간의</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">사랑에</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">의해</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">종속된</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">관계로서</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">언제든</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">타인이</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">될</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">수</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">있다는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">점에서</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">조심스럽고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">귀하게</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">여겨야</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">하는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">상대라고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">생각한다고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">말씀드렸다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">다행히</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">잘</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">이해해</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">주셔서</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">좋은</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">부모님을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">만났다는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">생각을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">했다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">딸을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">갖고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">싶어하셨던</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">부분은</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">가만히</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">위로를</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">드렸다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">제가</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">가끔</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">딸</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">같기도</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">하잖아요</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">아닌가</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">? </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">ㅎ</span></div> <div><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"><br></span></div> <div><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">미즈넷</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">, </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">마이클럽</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">등</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">여성</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">커뮤니티를</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">눈팅해</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">보면</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">시어머니와의</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">갈등</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">글이</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">매주</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">수십</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">건</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">씩</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">올라온다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">그</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">중</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">대다수는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">시어머니가</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">며느리를</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">대하는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">태도와</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">하대의</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">문제로</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">보인다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">일방적인</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">존대어에</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">의해</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">상하관계가</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">만들어지곤</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">한다는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">점에서</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">시어머니가</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">며느리에게</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">반말하는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">것은</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">자의로</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">둘이서</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">놀러갈</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">정도로</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">친해진</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">경우에</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">한해서</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">시어머니가</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">조심</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">, </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">한번</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">더</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">조심해서</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">나중에</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">놓아야</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">한다고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">생각한다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span></div> <div><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"><br></span></div> <div><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">그렇게</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">가까워지는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">날이</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">오지</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">않을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">가능성도</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">높은데</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">, </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">굳이</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">고부갈등이라는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">가능성</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">높은</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">위험을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">감수하면서까지</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> 사위-장모 관계 이상으로 </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">친해질</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">필요가</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">없는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">관계라고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">본다. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">서</span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">로</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">예의를</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">차리고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">가끔</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">만나면</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">항상</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">반갑고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">잘해주고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">싶은</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">손님이면</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">충분한</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">대성공이다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">언젠가</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">친근히</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">반말을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">하더라도</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">전통적인</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">고부관계에서</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">탈피해서</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">백년손님으로서</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">며느리를</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">대하려는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">태도가</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">새</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">시대의</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">사랑받는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">시어머니에겐</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">꼭</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">필요하다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">.</span></div> <div><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"><br></span></div> <div><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">아내가</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">옆에</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">없을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">때면</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">, </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">내</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">아내를</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">백년손님으로</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">대해</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">주셔서</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">감사하다는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">말씀을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">부모님께</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> 100</span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">번은</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">더</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">드릴</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">생각이다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">실제로</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">매번</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">포옹하고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">업드려</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">절할</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">생각이다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">인생</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">마지막</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">순간에도</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">손을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">꼭</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">잡고</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">감사</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">말씀</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">드릴거다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">내가</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">사랑하는</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">사람을</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">귀하게</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">여겨</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">주셔서</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">감사합니다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">. </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">이</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">은혜</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">, </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">저승에서도</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">잊지</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;"> </span><span style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">않겠습니다</span><span class="s1" style="font-size:9pt;line-height:1.5;">.</span></div>
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