<div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:<br></span><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">스님<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>처음 뵙겠습니다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">스님께 두 가지 말씀 여쭙고 싶은데 </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">하나는</span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">기도할 때 집중이 잘 안됩니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">기도문을 외울 때도 그렇고 성심성의껏 한다고 하는데도 하다보면 </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">어떨 때는 집에 어제 있었던 일도 생각나고<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">또 어떨 때는 백화점 세일하는 것도 생각나고<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">(</span>청중들 웃음<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">) </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">그래서 날마다 하면 조금씩 좋아지기는 하는데 </font><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">항상 집중이 잘 안돼서 </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">어느 스님이 쓰신 책에 기도문을 외울 때 자기 음성이 귀에 들리면 집중이 되는 거라고 </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그래서 따라도 해봤는데 그것도 좀 잘 안되고 그래서 집중하는 방법이 있는가 싶기도 하고</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">두 번째는 </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">제가 누구하고 갈등이 있을 때마다 </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">제가</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">큰마음을 내겠다</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">’ </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">이렇게 하다가도 항상 그 다음에 따라오는 거는</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><b><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">왜 나만 그래야 돼</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">?’ </span></b></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">남편하고 갈등</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">자식하고 갈등</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">동서간의</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">형제간의 갈등이 있을 때</span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">왜 나만 큰마음을 내야 되는 가</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">?’ </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">이렇게 자꾸 마음에 생깁니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"> <br> </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;"><br></span>후자부터 먼저 얘기하면 </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;">내가 마음을 내면 내가 좋기 때문에 내가 마음을 내는 거예요</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">. </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;">내가 상대를 이해하면 내 마음이 편안하고<br><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;">내가 상대를 이해하지 못하면 내 마음이 답답하니까 </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;">내가 이해하는 마음을 내는 거예요.</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그 상대를 위해서 내는 거 아니에요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">나 편하자고 내는 거예요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">나 편하자고</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">상대를 미워하게 되면 내가 괴로워지니까</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">상대를 이해하면 내가 마음이 편하니까 내가 내는 거예요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그러면</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">‘</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">왜 나만 내야 되나</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">’ </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">이렇게 생각이 들면 내지마세요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">.(</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">청중들 웃음</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">) </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">내지 않으면 자기가 괴로워지지 뭐</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">.</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">이거는 이렇게 마음을 내면 죽은 뒤에 천당 간다든지 복 받는다 이런 얘기가 아니에요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">원리가 그렇다는 거야</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">내가 그렇게 마음을 내면 내가 좋아진다는 거야</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><br></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">이 세상 대부분 사람들이 인생이 괴로운 거는 </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">자기 관점에 서서 자기 의견을 고집하고 상대를 고치려고 하니까 인생이 피곤하거예요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">지금</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">여러분들 다른 사람 얘기하는 거 들어보면 </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">자기는 막 굉장한 일이라고 생각하고 이렇게 하는데 들어보면 어때요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">세상살이 수많은 가운데 하나잖아 그죠</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">요즘 만약에 주식투자를 많이 하지 않습니까</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">?</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;"> </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">부동산 투자를 많이 하잖아요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그러면 모든 투자한 사람이 계속 벌어야 돼요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">번 사람도 있고 잃는 사람도 있어야 돼요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">번 사람도 있고 잃는 사람도 있어야 되겠지</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그러니까 평균적으로 보면 </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">누가 돈을 잃었다 그래도 크게 뭐</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">돈 벌려고 하다가 잃는 게 당연하죠</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">또</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">대학시험 치는 애는</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">100</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">만 명이고 대학정원은</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">50</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">만 명이다</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">’ </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그러면</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">50</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">만 명 떨어져야 돼요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">안 떨어져야 돼</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">떨어져야 돼</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">달리 길이 없잖아</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그 당사자들은 굉장히 큰 문제지만 뭐 여러분들이 볼 때 별 큰일 아니잖아</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><br></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">요즘 곧 있으면 보궐선거 돼가지고 누구는 걸리고 누구는 떨어지고 하는데 </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그 선거하는 사람들은 하늘이 무너지는 거 같은 큰일이잖아 그지</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">여러분들이 볼 때는 별일 아니지</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그거 떨어졌다고 죽을 일이여</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">아니잖아.</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;"> </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그런 것처럼</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">나만 쳐다보면 굉장히 큰일 같지만은 </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">그냥 들어 내놓고 보면 큰일은 없어요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">. </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">이 세상에</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그러니까</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"> 내가 나에게 사로잡히게 되면 이게 큰 일이 되는 거예요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">.</span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">그래서 내가 상대를 이해하고 보편적인 생각을 갖게 되면 </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">내가 어떤 상황이 돼도 편안해 질 수가 있다</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">...</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">이런 얘기예요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">근데 내가 나한테 사로잡혀서 내 고집대로 하려고 그러면 </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">조그마한 일도 굉장히 큰일이 되어 버려</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그래서 내가 괴롭다</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그래서 내가 상대를 이해하라는 거예요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">뭐</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> 하기 싫으면 안 해도 되요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그러니까 남편 좋으라고 남편 이해하라는 게 아니에요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">내 좋으라고 이해하라는 거예요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">내 좋으라고</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그럼 내가 남편 어차피 그렇게 생긴 거 이해 안하면 어떡할 거예요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">이번에 미국 갔더니 어떤 분이 이렇게 질문합디다</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">손을 번쩍 들더니</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">,</span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>스님요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.’</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>왜<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">?’</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>스님은 왜 여자만 자꾸 참회하라 그래요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>남자 좀 하면 안돼요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">?’ </span>이래</font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><br></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>남자 하면 되지<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.’</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>그럼 남자들보고 좀 참회하라 그래요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span>그래<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>그래 알았다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>남자들 참회 좀 해라<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span>내가 그랬지<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.(</span>청중들 웃음<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">)</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span>그런다고 뭐가 해결이 돼요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>내가 그랬어요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>우리 어머니도 여잔데 내가 여자 편들지 뭣 땜에 남자 편들어<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">?’ </span>내가 이랬어요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.(</span>청중들 웃음<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">) </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">그러니까 <b>질문하는 당사자 편을 들어서 얘기 하는 거예요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></b></font><b><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">질문하는 당사자</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></b></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><br></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><br></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">만약에 남편이 나한테 질문을 하면서</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">아내 때문에 못 살겠다</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">’ </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그러면 어때요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그런 아내는 어떻게 할 거예요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">길은 두 가지예요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">‘</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">안녕히 계십시오</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">.’</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">하던지 </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">내가 맞추든지</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">달리 길이 없잖아</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">'</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">아내 좀 뜯어 고치면 안돼요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">?' '</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">고쳐라.</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">' </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">그게 고쳐지면 물을 이유가 뭐가 있어요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">나한테 와서 물을 땐 안 고쳐진다는 얘기 아니에요 그죠</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">내가 말하는 건 고칠 생각을 내려놔라 이 말이야</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">.</span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">그래서 자기 자신도 고치려고 하는데 잘 안 고쳐지잖아요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">근데 우리가 어떻게 남을 고쳐요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;font-weight:bold;">이게 쉬운 일이 아니에요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">...</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">숫제 여러분들이 세상은 고치기 쉽습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">알았어요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">제일 고치기 어려운 사람이 누구다</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">남편과 아내에요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">아내는 남편 고치기 어렵고</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">남편은 아내 고치기 어려워</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">내가 그래서 대신 고쳐주잖아</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">.(</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">청중들 웃음</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">) </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">남편들을 위해서 아내 고쳐주고</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">아내들을 위해서 남편 고쳐주고</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">자식들을 위해서 부모 고쳐주고 그러잖아</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">숫제 제가 얘기를 하면 말을 더 잘 들어요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">근데 보살님도 내가 얘기하면 듣지 남편이 얘기하면 절대로 안 들어</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">근데 당신 남편도 당신이 얘기하면 절대로 안 들어</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그래서 나한테 부탁해서</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">좀 고쳐주세요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">이러고 싶지만 </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">나는 그렇게 남 부탁받곤 절대로 안 해줘요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">.(</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">청중들 웃음</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">) </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><b><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그래서 내 생각을 바꾸고 내 생각을 넓히면 내가 좋기 때문에 고치라는 거예요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span></b></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">첫 번째 질문은 뭐였어요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">?</span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"> <br> </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:<br></span>기도할 때<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">...<br></span> </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br> <br><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:<br></span><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">아 잡념이 많다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">질문하는 보살님만 그런 게 아니고 여기 앉아있는 사람 다 그래요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">백화점 정도가 아니라 저 우주까지도 왔다 갔다 해<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.(</span>청중들 웃음<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">) </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">어린 시절 왔다 갔다 했다가<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>저 우주로 왔다 갔다 했다가<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">소설책을 왔다 갔다 했다가<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>본 영화를 왔다 갔다 했다가<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>옛날 애인하고 놀았다가<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">뭐 왔다 갔다 하는 거예요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">괜찮아 그거는<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>큰 문제 안돼요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">그럴 때 이렇게 봐야 돼요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><b><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>아 내 속에 늘 이런 번뇌가 일어나는 구나<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span></b></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">일상생활 속에선 잘 못 느끼지<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">지금도 계속 그게 일어나고 있어요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">근데 지금 이렇게 생방송이 쎄다 보니까 녹화방송이 지금 눌려서 밑에 있거든요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">눈만 딱 감고</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">귀만 딱 막고 생방송만 꺼주면 그게 막 금방 올라와서 이렇게 노는 거예요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그러니까</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">첫째, </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">아 내가 참 번뇌가 많구나</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">’ </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> 이렇게 알면 되지 </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">이걸 없애야 된다든지</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">, ‘</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">나는 왜 많나</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">’ </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">이렇게 생각할 필요가 없다</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그 다음 두 번째, </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">참회를 할 때 기도문이 뭐에요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">?</span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"> </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br> <br><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;"><br></span>예<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>지금 제일 급한 거는 애 수능 기도<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">... 100</span>일 기도<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span>하는 겁니다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.<br></span> <br> </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;"><br></span>그러니까 <span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">100</span>일 기도를 어떻게 하느냐 이거야<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. ‘</span>수능에 걸리게 해주세요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span>이렇게 기도해요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">?<br></span> <br> </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;"><br></span>애가 좀 성격이 강해서 </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>저 강한 성격을 좀 부드럽게 할 수 있게 저를 좀 바꾸게 해주십시오<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">이렇게<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">(</span>웃음<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">) </span>기도합니다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.<br></span> <br> </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;"><br></span>기도를 그렇게 엉터리로 하니까 <span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">(</span>청중들 웃음<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">) </span>자꾸 번뇌가 생기지<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">그러니까 아이를 생각할 때는 수능 기도를 할 때<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">그 공부하기 싫은 아이<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>시험에 임박해서 불안한 아이 있잖아요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span>심리가. 그죠<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">엄마가 더 불안할까<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>애가 더 불안할까<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;">애가 더 불안하지</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">? </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">‘</span><span style="font-weight:bold;">그런 아이의 마음을 이해하겠습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">.’ </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;">이런 기도를 해야 돼</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">. </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;">그래야 애가 공부를 안 해도 농땡이를 쳐도 불안해해도 </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;">그 마음이 내가 이해가 돼서 </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">‘</span><span style="font-weight:bold;">그래 그럴 수도 있다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">.’ ‘</span><span style="font-weight:bold;">그럴 수도 있다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">.’ </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;">이렇게 안정을 시켜줄 수 있단 말이야</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">...</span><span lang="en-us"> </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>내일 모레 시험인데<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">!! </span>니 지금 뭐하는 짓이야<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">!? TV</span>나 보고<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">!!’ </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">심리가 불안하니까 <span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">TV</span>앞에 서있단 말이야<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span>무슨 말인지 아시겠어요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">그 마음이 이해되면 같이 좀 옆에 앉아 있다가 </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>아이고 공부하기 힘들지<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>뭐 맛있는 거 줄까<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">?’ </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">이렇게 대화를 조금 하다가 </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>그래도 이제 며칠 남았으니까 어떻게 해야 될까<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">힘든 건 이해되지만 그렇다고 시험 안칠 수는 없지 않느냐<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">’ </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">이렇게 얘기 하면 조금 있다가 올라가지만은 </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">내리 <span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>내일 시험인데 니 지금 뭐하는 짓이야<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">!! </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">엄마는 죽어라고 기도 다니는 데 니가 이래도 되겠어<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">?’ </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">이런 식으로 하면 애가 올라가긴 올라가죠<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">올라가서 기분이 좋으나 나쁘나<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">기분이 나쁘니까 문 잠그고 침대 가서 누워서 자버린단 말이야<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;">그러니까 실제로 도움이 안 된다는거야</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">...</span><span lang="en-us"> </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">그래서 <span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>아이의 마음을 이해하겠습니다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span>이렇게 기도해야 돼<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;">그럼 애가 떨어졌다 해도</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">, </span><span style="font-weight:bold;">애가 시험을 못 쳤다 해도 </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;">그 마음이 이해되는 기도를 했기 때문에 </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">‘</span><span style="font-weight:bold;">괜찮다</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">. </span><span style="font-weight:bold;">내년에 한번 더하면 되지</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">.’ </span><span style="font-weight:bold;">이렇게 된단 말이야</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">... </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;line-height:21.6px;font-weight:bold;">그것 가지고 초조</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;line-height:21.6px;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">, </span><span style="font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;line-height:21.6px;font-weight:bold;">불안 안하고</span><span lang="en-us" style="font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;line-height:21.6px;letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">.</span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"> <br> </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;"><br></span>네<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. ‘</span>애를 이해하겠습니다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>저를 바꾸겠습니다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span>이렇게 기도하면<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">...<br></span> <br> </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;"><br></span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>저를 바꾸겠습니다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span>그런 말 붙이지 마<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.<br></span> <br> </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br><span style="font-weight:bold;">질문자</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;"><br></span>그렇게 기도를 해서 아마 힘들었던 것 같습니다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">저도 힘든데 항상 <span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>괜찮다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">’ ‘</span>괜찮다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">’ </span>이렇게 하니까 좀 힘들었던 것 같습니다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.<br></span> <br> </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br><span style="font-weight:bold;">법륜스님</span><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;">:</span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;font-weight:bold;"><br></span>그래서 '아이를 이해하겠습니다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.' </span>이렇게 기도하고 두 번째는, </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">남편한테 참회기도를 하세요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">... </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">아이가 성격이 좀 강하다하면 내가 성격이 강하기 때문에 아이가 성격이 강하거든요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">그러면 '내 성격 줄이겠습니다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.' </span>이런다고 되는 게 아니란 말이야<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">남편한테 숙이면 내 성격이 저절로 부드러워지는 거거든요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">그게 아이에게 전달이 되기 때문에 </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">그 문제는 <span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>내 성격 바꾸겠습니다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span>라든지 </font><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">강한 성격 버리겠습니다</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">이러지 말고</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">, </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">남편한테 </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>아이고 여보 자꾸 제가 세워서 미안합니다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span>제가 참회합니다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">이렇게 기도해<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">내가 남편한테 참회기도를 하면 </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">어제 생활을 가만히 절하면서 생각해보면 참회할 일이 많아요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>없어요<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span>많지<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">또 <span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span>아이 마음을 이해하겠습니다<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span>할 때도 </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">아이마음을 실제로 이해 안한 게 많잖아 그지<span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">? </span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><br></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2">그런 거 하나하나에서 </font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></font></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><font face="맑은 고딕" size="2"><span lang="en-us" style="letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span></font><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">아이고 내가 그것도 놓쳤네</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">아이고 얼마나 공부하기 싫으면</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">TV</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">봤는데 그걸 내가 또 야단 쳤네</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">.’ </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">아이고 남편이 뭐라 뭐라 하는데</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"> </span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">‘</span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">네 알았어요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">여보</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">’ </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">이러면 되는데 </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">또 내가 어쩌고저쩌고 했네</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">’ </span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;"><br></span></div> <div style="margin:0px;line-height:21.6px;"><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">이렇게 참회를 하면 딴 생각들이 들어도 별로 없어요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">. </span><span style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;">그렇게 해보세요</span><span lang="en-us" style="line-height:21.6px;font-family:'맑은 고딕';font-size:small;letter-spacing:0pt;">.</span></div> <p style="margin:0px;font-family:gulim, Dotum, Helvetica, AppleGothic, sans-serif;line-height:21.6px;"></p> <p style="margin:0px;font-family:gulim, Dotum, Helvetica, AppleGothic, sans-serif;line-height:21.6px;"></p> <p style="margin:0px;font-family:gulim, Dotum, Helvetica, AppleGothic, sans-serif;line-height:21.6px;"></p> <p style="margin:0px;font-family:gulim, Dotum, Helvetica, AppleGothic, sans-serif;line-height:21.6px;"></p> <p style="margin:0px;font-family:gulim, Dotum, Helvetica, AppleGothic, sans-serif;line-height:21.6px;"></p> <p style="margin:0px;font-family:gulim, Dotum, Helvetica, AppleGothic, 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