<div class="se-component se-image se-l-default" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-size:medium;line-height:inherit;font-family:'se-nanumgothic', sans-serif;vertical-align:baseline;color:#666666;"> <div class="se-component-content se-component-content-fit" style="margin:0px auto;padding:0px 40px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:100%;"> <div class="se-section se-section-image se-l-default se-section-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"><a target="_blank" href="https://blog.naver.com/PostList.nhn?blogId=junv94&widgetTypeCall=true&categoryNo=1&topReferer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.naver.com%2F&directAccess=true#" class="se-module se-module-image __se_image_link __se_link" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;display:block;" target="_blank"><br></a></div></div></div> <div class="se-component se-text se-l-default" style="margin:20px 0px 0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-size:medium;line-height:inherit;font-family:'se-nanumgothic', sans-serif;vertical-align:baseline;color:#666666;"> <div class="se-component-content" style="margin:0px auto;padding:0px 40px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:100%;"> <div class="se-section se-section-text se-l-default" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <div class="se-module se-module-text" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs24 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:24px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;color:#54b800;"><i style="background-color:inherit;"><span style="font-weight:700;background-color:inherit;font-family:inherit;">1. 스마트폰과 멀어져라.</span></i></span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">우리가 스마트폰을 얼마나 사용하는지는 지하철만 타도 알수있다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">현재 30세인 사람이 죽을 때까지 스마트폰을 보는 </span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">총 시간이 약 7년 전후 정도이다. 독서는 겨우 10개월인데 말이다.스마트폰과 거리를 둬야한다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">내 시야에 스마트폰이 보이면 나의 의지력은 약해진다. 책상에서 업무를 할때나 독서할땐 베란다에 폰을 두거나 아니면 다른 방에 폰을 두고 문을 닫는다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs- se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">​</span></p></div></div></div></div> <div class="se-component se-image se-l-default" style="margin:20px 0px 0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-size:medium;line-height:inherit;font-family:'se-nanumgothic', sans-serif;vertical-align:baseline;color:#666666;"> <div class="se-component-content se-component-content-fit" style="margin:0px auto;padding:0px 40px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:100%;"> <div class="se-section se-section-image se-l-default se-section-align-left" style="margin:0px auto 0px 0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <div class="se-module se-module-text se-caption" style="margin:10px auto 20px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:100%;"></div></div></div></div> <div class="se-component se-text se-l-default" style="margin:20px 0px 0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-size:medium;line-height:inherit;font-family:'se-nanumgothic', sans-serif;vertical-align:baseline;color:#666666;"> <div class="se-component-content" style="margin:0px auto;padding:0px 40px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:100%;"> <div class="se-section se-section-text se-l-default" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <div class="se-module se-module-text" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs24 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:24px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;color:#54b800;"><i style="background-color:inherit;"><span style="font-weight:700;background-color:inherit;font-family:inherit;">2.특정 장소를 이용하라.</span></i></span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">자신이 책을 읽기에 최적의 장소를 물색한다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">나같은 경우는 도서관은 너무 조용해서 졸리고 카페를 자주 이용한다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs11 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:11px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">(너무 시끄러운곳 말고 나만의 아지트를 애용한다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs11 se-ff- se-decoration-unset" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:11px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"><strike style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;background-color:inherit;">이성의 시선을 상상하며 책을 읽으면 그렇게 잘 읽힐 수가 없다</strike></span><span class="se-fs-fs11 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:11px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">.^^)</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">출퇴근 시간 지하철을 이용해도 좋다. '무조건' 책만 읽는다는 마음으로 스마트폰을 꺼 두고 독서하는것이다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">Tip. 손목시계(폰과 연동x)를 이용하면 스마트폰 시계를 보지않아도 되니 좀 더 책에 집중할 수 있다!</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs24 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:24px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;color:#ff5f45;"><i style="background-color:inherit;"><span style="font-weight:700;background-color:inherit;font-family:inherit;">​</span></i></span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs24 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:24px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;color:#ff5f45;"><i style="background-color:inherit;"><span style="font-weight:700;background-color:inherit;font-family:inherit;">​</span></i></span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs24 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:24px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;color:#54b800;"><i style="background-color:inherit;"><span style="font-weight:700;background-color:inherit;font-family:inherit;">3.인지부조화를 이용하라.</span></i></span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">그냥 읽는것이다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">뇌는 인지부조화를 싫어해서, 인지부조화를 벗어나기 위해 '자기정당화'를 발동시킨다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">출근 후 회사업무하기 싫은데,</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">먹고살려면 어쩔수 없이 업무를 하다보면 그냥 하고있는 '나'를 발견한 날이 있지않은가?</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs- se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">​</span></p></div></div></div></div> <div class="se-component se-image se-l-default" style="margin:30px 0px 0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-size:medium;line-height:inherit;font-family:'se-nanumgothic', sans-serif;vertical-align:baseline;color:#666666;"> <div class="se-component-content se-component-content-fit" style="margin:0px auto;padding:0px 40px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:100%;"> <div class="se-section se-section-image se-l-default se-section-align-left" style="margin:0px auto 0px 0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"><br><div class="se-module se-module-text se-caption" style="margin:10px auto 20px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:100%;"></div></div></div></div> <div class="se-component se-text se-l-default" style="margin:20px 0px 0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-size:medium;line-height:inherit;font-family:'se-nanumgothic', sans-serif;vertical-align:baseline;color:#666666;"> <div class="se-component-content" style="margin:0px auto;padding:0px 40px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:100%;"> <div class="se-section se-section-text se-l-default" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <div class="se-module se-module-text" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs24 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:24px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;color:#54b800;"><i style="background-color:inherit;"><span style="font-weight:700;background-color:inherit;font-family:inherit;">4.책 한꺼번에 많이 사라.</span></i></span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">읽고 싶은 책 한권씩 사는게 아니라 5~10권 정도의 책을 산다. 그리고 집에 잘 보이는 장소에 딱 진열해 놓자.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">그러면 눈에 자주 밟히기 때문에 '내가 앞으로 읽을 책들이 저기 많이 있구나'라는 생각과 함께 독서를 해야함을 잊지 않게된다. </span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">하지만 자신만의 기준을 정하자.계속 책을 주문하다보면 자신이 예전에 사둔 책을 또 재주문하는경우가 있어서 자신만의 책주문리스트를 만들어두는걸 추천한다. 아님 지금 주문한 책을 다읽고 책을 구매하겠다는 기준을 세워도 좋다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs- se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">​</span></p></div></div></div></div> <div class="se-component se-image se-l-default" style="margin:20px 0px 0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-size:medium;line-height:inherit;font-family:'se-nanumgothic', sans-serif;vertical-align:baseline;color:#666666;"> <div class="se-component-content se-component-content-fit" style="margin:0px auto;padding:0px 40px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:100%;"> <div class="se-section se-section-image se-l-default se-section-align-left" style="margin:0px auto 0px 0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <div class="se-module se-module-text se-caption" style="margin:10px auto 20px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:100%;"></div></div></div></div> <div class="se-component se-text se-l-default" style="margin:20px 0px 0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-size:medium;line-height:inherit;font-family:'se-nanumgothic', sans-serif;vertical-align:baseline;color:#666666;"> <div class="se-component-content" style="margin:0px auto;padding:0px 40px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:100%;"> <div class="se-section se-section-text se-l-default" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <div class="se-module se-module-text" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs24 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:24px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;color:#54b800;"><i style="background-color:inherit;"><span style="font-weight:700;background-color:inherit;font-family:inherit;">5.독서모임에 참여하라.</span></i></span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">한번쯤 독서모임에 참여하는걸 추천한다. 필자는 2년정도 서울에서 독서모임장을 맡았다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">일주일에 한권 읽고 대화하는방식이였는데, 정말 많은 도움이 되었다. 처음엔 사람들 2~3명 앞에서 나의 생각을 표현하는게 정말 어색했는데 억지로 억지로 하다보니 7~8명 앞에서 내 생각을 말함에 거리낌없어진다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">물론 내 생각이 틀릴 수있음을 항상 염두해두면서 말한다. 그리고 처음엔 내 생각에 누군가 반론을 하거나 나와는 다른생각을 얘기했을 땐,괜히 얼굴이 붉어지고 나의 의견이 잘못됐나 하는 생각에 내가 말했던 의견만 생각하다보니 상대방의 의견을 놓치는 부분이 많았다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">그러다가 점점 내 의견이 맞을 수도 있고 틀릴 수도 있음을 깨닫고, 모든 상대방의 의견을 '그럴 수도 있겠군'이란 마인드로 듣다보니 상대방의 의견을 듣고 생각할 시간이 생겼고 자연스럽게 상대방 의견에 대해 또 나의 의견에 대해 토론할수 있게 되었다. </span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">또 한가지 장점은 사람들은 각자 자기만의 세계를 가지고 있다는것을. 듣고 보면 놀랍고 재밌다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs- se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">​</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs24 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:24px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;color:#54b800;"><i style="background-color:inherit;"><span style="font-weight:700;background-color:inherit;font-family:inherit;">6.3~4권 동시에 읽어라.</span></i></span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">읽다보면 졸리다. 처음엔 분명 재밌었는데 갑자기 지루해지고 한장 한장 넘기기가 힘들다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">그럴땐 빨리 다른 호기심을 자극하는 책으로 넘어가자. </span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">'이 책 다 읽고 다음책으로 넘어가야지' 라는 생각은 </span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">다시 한번 생각해보길 권유한다. 우리 인간은 언제나 기분이 좋지않고 그날그날 컨디션도 다르다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs11 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:11px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">(쾌변을 한 날과 못한 날을 생각해보라. 얼마나 기분이 다른지)</span><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> </span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">우리는 앞으로 계속 책을 읽어야한다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">책을 좋아하는 마음이 자라날 수 있게 도와주자!</span></p></div></div></div></div> <div class="se-component se-image se-l-default" style="margin:30px 0px 0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-size:medium;line-height:inherit;font-family:'se-nanumgothic', sans-serif;vertical-align:baseline;color:#666666;"> <div class="se-component-content se-component-content-fit" style="margin:0px auto;padding:0px 40px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:100%;"> <div class="se-section se-section-image se-l-default se-section-align-left" style="margin:0px auto 0px 0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"><br><div class="se-module se-module-text se-caption" style="margin:10px auto 20px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:100%;"></div></div></div></div> <div class="se-component se-text se-l-default" style="margin:20px 0px 0px;padding:0px;border:0px;line-height:inherit;font-family:'se-nanumgothic', sans-serif;vertical-align:baseline;"> <div class="se-component-content" style="font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;line-height:inherit;font-family:inherit;margin:0px auto;padding:0px 40px;border:0px;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:100%;"> <div class="se-section se-section-text se-l-default" style="font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;line-height:inherit;font-family:inherit;margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;vertical-align:baseline;"> <div class="se-module se-module-text" style="font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;line-height:inherit;font-family:inherit;margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;vertical-align:baseline;"> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="color:#666666;font-size:0px;font-weight:inherit;margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs24 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:24px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;color:#54b800;"><i style="background-color:inherit;"><span style="font-weight:700;background-color:inherit;font-family:inherit;">7.다독가를 주변에 두라.</span></i></span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="color:#666666;font-size:0px;font-weight:inherit;margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">이거 정말 동기부여 된다. 오늘도 공원에서 뛰고 왔는데</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="color:#666666;font-size:0px;font-weight:inherit;margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> 혼자 공원 두바퀴를 뛰고, 힘들어서 걷는것과 뛰는것 그 사이를 왔다갔다 했다.그런데 갑자기 옆에 한 분이 나를 앞지르기에 나도 모르게 속도가 올라갔다. </span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="color:#666666;font-size:0px;font-weight:inherit;margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">'내게 이런 힘이 남아있었나' 할 정도로 뛰는 날 보고 놀랄때가 한두번이 아니다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="color:#666666;font-size:0px;font-weight:inherit;margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">또 다독가를 두면 좋은책도 추천받는다.</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="color:#666666;font-size:0px;font-weight:inherit;margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><span class="se-fs-fs13 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:13px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">​</span></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="color:#666666;font-size:0px;font-weight:inherit;margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"><font color="#ff0010" size="2"><a target="_blank" href="https://cafe.naver.com/singlehood/32" target="_blank">출처 1인가구들을 위한 행복한 싱글라이프</a></font></p></div></div></div></div>