<p> <a target="_blank" href="https://cafe.naver.com/carelaw/2725" target="_blank">https://cafe.naver.com/carelaw/2725</a> </p> <div class="article_viewer"> <div class="content CafeViewer"> <div class="se-viewer se-theme-default" lang="ko-kr" style="font-family:'Apple SD Gothic Neo', '맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic', '돋움', dotum, sans-serif;line-height:1;"> <div class="se-main-container" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <div class="se-component se-image se-l-default" style="margin:30px 0px 0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <div class="se-component-content se-component-content-normal" style="margin:0px auto;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:800px;"> <div class="se-section se-section-image se-l-default se-section-align-center" style="margin:0px auto;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:482px;"> <div class="se-module se-module-image" 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class="se-section se-section-text se-l-default" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <div class="se-module se-module-text" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-center" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.6;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"></span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.6;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"></span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">15대 왕 광해군은 후궁 소생의 둘째 아들로 왕위와는 거리가 먼 인물이었죠.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">2살 때 생모를 잃어 그의 옆에는 안정적 애착을 형성시켜 줄 사람이 없었어요.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">그는 어린 시절 서자 콤플렉스를 가지고 있었으며 만성불안에 시달렸어요.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"></span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">하지만 그는 성인자아(Adult ego)가 높은 사람으로 추측됩니다.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">임진왜란과 전후 복구, 실리외교, 인조반정 후 망명지에서의 태도로 미루어보면요.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"></span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">성인자아가 높으면 합리적이고, 사실평가적이며 현실지향적입니다.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">문제해결에 능하고, 사태를 객관적으로 보면서 결단하고 행동하지요.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">자신의 의견과 다르면 감정이 건드려지고 분노 표출로 이어져 불같이 화를 내기보다는.. 차분하고 이성적으로 감정을 조절하며 다른 사람의 의견을 주의 깊게 경청할 줄 알고요.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">상대방 의견이 더 합리적이면 기꺼이 받아들이거나 타협의 과정을 거쳐요.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">감정기복이 심해 다른 사람의 언행에 따라 자존심이 출렁여 쏘아붙이기보다는 필요한 경우에는 침묵할 줄도 알아요.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.6;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"></span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.6;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"></span> </p> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="se-component se-text se-l-default" style="margin:20px 0px 0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <div class="se-component-content" style="margin:0px auto;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;max-width:800px;"> <div class="se-section se-section-text se-l-default" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <div class="se-module se-module-text" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">아버지 선조가 임진왜란 때 서둘러 17세인 광해군을 세자로 책봉하고 난을 수습하도록 분조(分朝;임시 조정)를 이끌게 했지요.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">오늘날로 치면 고등학생 나이에 광해군은 일본군이 점령하고 있던 남쪽 지역으로 내려가 백성들을 직접 만나며 민심을 수습하고 의병을 모집하고 군량을 모으며 전장을 누볐어요.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">북쪽으로, 나중에는 요동으로 도망갈 계획까지 세웠던 아버지와는 달리 말이죠.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">왕가에 대한 불만이 폭발 직전이었던 백성들 사이에서 광해군의 이러한 헌신은 민심을 돌리는데 일조했어요.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">훗날 역사가들에게 이러한 활약은 조선 왕조에서 많지 않은 노블리스 오블리주가 실천된 사례로써 긍정적으로 평가되기도 했습니다.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">선조가 늘그막에 얻은 영창대군을 끼고 돌며 광해군을 핍박하고 세자 자리를 놓고 위협해도 신하들은 그가 33세에 즉위할 때까지 끝까지 신뢰하며 협력했어요.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"></span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">유일무이한 권력을 가진 사람이 권력을 이용해서 자기 안위를 살피는 대신 책임을 다하는 모습은 현실적이고 문제해결적인.. 어른스럽고 성인자아가 높은 광해군의 면모를 보여줍니다.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">광해군이 즉위하고 전후 복구를 위한 정책을 펼치는 모습에서는 더욱 과감하고 결단성 있는 성인자아가 높은 사람의 특징을 잘 보여주는데요.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"></span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">그는 전란을 대비해 미리 국방 경비를 정비하고 무기 제조를 강화하는 정책을 펼치면서 원수지간인 일본과 외교를 재개하고, 그의 가장 큰 치적인 대동법을 실시했어요.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">지역의 특산물을 내는 공납이 관리들에 의해 변질되어, 떠안은 빚 때문에 백성들이 고향을 떠나 떠돌게 되고 나라의 수입도 줄어드는 걸 보고 그는 단호하게 결정을 내렸습니다.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">지역 특산품 대신 모든 공물을 옷감, 쌀로 대신 내도록 해서 백성들의 부담을 크게 줄여주었고 그에 대한 백성들의 반응은 뜨거웠지요.</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;"></span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">이는 수많은 규칙들에 지나치게 얽매여 유연성이 부족하거나 자기 신념을 상대방에게 강요하는 강압적인 ‘비판적인 어버이자아’ 대신에..</span> </p> <p class="se-text-paragraph se-text-paragraph-align-justify" style="padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:0px;line-height:1.8;font-family:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-line;text-align:justify;"> <span class="se-fs-fs15 se-ff-" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;border:0px;font-style:inherit;font-variant:inherit;font-weight:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:inherit;vertical-align:baseline;">전체를 보며 통합적 사고를 지향하는 ‘성인자아’를 활용하고 있다는 것을 보여주는 예이지요.</span> </p> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="ArticleTagList" style="overflow:hidden;margin-top:40px;"> <strong class="blind" style="width:1px;height:1px;margin:-1px;overflow:hidden;font-family:'Apple SD Gothic Neo', '맑은 고딕', 'Malgun Gothic', '돋움', dotum, sans-serif;font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">태그</strong> <p> <br></p> </div>